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this is true in 99% of cases. But sometimes a guy and a girl could not be interested in each other when they met but become interested later on.

I don't know if she wants to talk about the dancing, she was pretty cryptic. It's possible she wants to talk about something else. And like I said before, out of the 7 years I've known her we were apart for 4 years. And she did seem like she could have been interested back in high school but I...

Haven't spoke to her yet. She wanted to talk to me about it but she's probably pissed that I didn't speak to her when she wanted. And for me it's probably less a problem of the friendzone as much as her commitment to her bf. I'll probably talk to her this weekend.

Well, you have a point. It may be worth the risk but who knows...

met her in high school. Obviously after high school ppl left to go to different colleges (hell, even I left my city for college). It's just a coincidence that she recently (well, 6 months ago) moved to the city where I live.

Yeah, it's a contradiction. Here's the deal, in the past I thought about asking her out but chickened out. I just forgot about it and didn't pine after her or pursue her. And yes I did regret not asking her out back then, especially after she moved away (thought I'd never get the chance again)...

this was pretty much my plan (didn't know if it was good though). It's probably doomed to fail but that will because of her bf, not because we know each other from high school.

too bad St Patties is on Tues this year. I can't go out during the week so it would have been nice if March 17 was a Fri or Sat. Oh well, lol

lol, of course not. If something happens I'm fairly certain it will be soon. Obviously you can't help me (maybe you don't know how) but someone else might (not Maxtro though :D)

well, she's been pretty comfortable with the new me so far. It's not like I'm the only one who's changed in 4 years, she's changed too. btw, I never really pursued her, I thought about asking her out in the past but didn't bother. I also haven't pursued her since she moved back, like I said I...

yeah, but her bf is gonna be a problem. That's the main thing, it's what stopped her from coming home with me. That's what I needed help with.

you missed the part where I said that I didn't see her for 4 years. In that time I changed from that wimp. I was just dating someone when she came back so I didn't try anything with her. And I've only known her for 7 years. that's why I said it was a mistake Ok, so I'll give up now, just...

lol, my name was just something I came up with that's easy to remember, it's not a representative of me. You may be right about the other stuff (especially the unattachment to outcome)

lmao, my bad, forgot the ?. Yeah, I guess you'd be looking for an answer for this, I've read your threads. The only thing is that you don't have a chance with the girl you like so an answer wouldn't help you.

Thanks but not really that helpful. I know I shouldn't bother and just find someone else but I'd still like to try. Don't want to have any regrets, ya know?

Hi, new to the forum. Have read a bunch of stuff here but this is the first time I posted. Here's my problem, have this girl that I've known for the better part of a decade. We used to be pretty close, we flirted and have been told that we should date. But we never dated, I used to be a wimp...