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    Unplugging from The Matrix - Confusion, Fear and Anxiety

    Okay..nobody else did it...so I will....... The most important, telling, whole thing in a nutshell sentences in this major post, garaunteed to answer all your questions...ignored by most.....ARE..... She told me at the beginning that most of her relationships were short-term because the...
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    Unplugging

    For me I wasn't just unplugged. I was ripped out of the matrix under heavy load. Then tossed in the dirt with sparks and arc's flying out of me. Turned out I married a true BP. She never told me of her 2 trips to the looney tank untill about 5 yrs into a 10 year marriage. Said she was...
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    Threesome

    First up it would make a huge difference if it's wife or girlfriend. With a girlfriend all I risk losing is her. Mabey toss in some heartache, If I cared about her. But thats it. With a wife you would be gambling half your assets and lifes work as well!!!! Same goes for bringing one of...
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    The good, the bad, the Ugly

    WHOA!! Just say your update after I posted. DO NOT CALL HER BACK!!! The pain, hurt, and all the rest will come rushing right back!! You will hang up that phone, and immediatly want to kick yourself. Been there, done that, hope to warn you off that. It sucks. Just believe.
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    The good, the bad, the Ugly

    IMHO you did a great job. A major step in the right direction. Using your rage at the situation, to fuel an awesome workout, is dead on man. So is the time with your buddies. Right now it's got to be all about you. So far, pretty damn good! You've got alot of steam to vent. Venting in a way...
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    Need help...hurting bad

    I've got something for the pain. You're feeling so screwed up because your body and emotions truly think you are injured. Your body can't tell the difference between physical or emotional pain. So you just respond to the pain. Period. I 'll bet you do feel like you've been stabbed for real. I...
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    Hypothetical Q: Marraige IL

    Slick, I'm not taking sides, or here to validate, I'm here to say that In this case TLP has a very valid point. Provided I'm interpreting his reasons for this satement to you. I don't think the "has no questions before marriage" was a wrong comment at all. It was just a super short...
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    Hypothetical Q: Marraige IL

    Slick, I'd like to add to what was posted for you here. I've been having trouble posting. So before I do a detailed reply, If this short test post sticks, I'll be back. 496
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    At a Crossroad... Need Advice from OLDER People Please....

    Muzic- Just a tip from someone who is as "older" as it gets. At your age your "once in a lifetime" girl, comes along about every 5-6days or so............. So go out there and do one for me. Make the old man proud!
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    Sense of Direction in Life

    I'm back again. I've read your post again, and had more to say. From what I see you can "talk the talk". Meaning you are walking around all proud of your above average brains and drive. How many hours a day do you spend in school? 5? mabey 6? If you are all that you think you are...
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    Sense of Direction in Life

    Glad I read your post fellow DJ. 35 years ago i would look at the same guy you are talking about. In my mirror. I dropped out of high school (a pointless waste of my time I thought). Had a very succesful 30 year career in auto sales. Owned two business of my own and Did well enough to...
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    do men lose interest in sex as they grow older?

    In my case it's now way more about qaulity, than qauntity. Back in the day if it was female and breathing, I'd hit it. I'd also play all the required games to do so. For years now I've realized that sex is just an aspect of my life, not the reason I'm alive. I no longer want to drive...
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    What's Your Favorite Cologne Picks?

    As crazy as this sounds, nothing has got me more compliments from women than plain old Johnson's Baby Powder talc! Period. They can't quite place the scent. They know they love it. Many ask what it is I'm wearing. What I've found is smelling like a newborn baby, has been very, very...
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