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  1. cola

    Can it be saved?

    First post in years hope everyone’s well. Short and sweet, met a girl we are 9 months in. a lot of dates, a couple weekend trips. Recently we had an argument and she broke a key boundary. I’ve gotten weak over the years I guess and after 24 hrs no contact I broke first and contacted, against...
  2. cola

    Getting models in rotation / social circle...

    Be good looking and rich.
  3. cola

    How do you date when you absolutely ****ing hate yourself?

    6 months of monk mode bro. 6 days a week in gym that’s weights and cardio each session Read a book a week Meditate You can masturbate but no porn. Minimal spending. Buy nothing but necessities which is really just food, gas money for work and housing. TV on weekends only. No hanging out with...
  4. cola

    7/10 I never get fully hard with wants me hella bad

    You should next her for not having an iPhone.
  5. cola

    What are some tips on opening successfully?

    Always looking for IOIs, but day game indirect, Night game direct. Day game (I’m not familiar with the area, do you know a good place to xxx) If unclear on IOIs you can definitely look for them now. Hair twirling, pruning, looking at you then down.. if no IOIs don’t continue. Night game...
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    I'm struggling financially. Any tips?

    Bro, explain exactly what’s going on to the dates. You’d be shocked how compassionate some women can be with this. All women aren’t *******s.
  7. cola

    Dancing: Going from Zero to Stud

    I spend more time in clubs than I care to. If you can’t dance exceptionally well, don’t.
  8. cola

    Gym Pickups---A good small move to start

    I’m against gym pickups, unless you are getting strong undeniable IOIs. Gym, work & funerals are three places where you need to focus and not worry about p*ssy. Gains at the gym, lays at the bar after the gym.
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    When a woman talks about one specific ex every date

    Once you have a conversation about red pill to a guy and you see he just can’t conceive it, just let it be. Be a good friend and be his dude date for a few weekends after she hurts him. All you can do.
  10. cola

    Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

    You pay for it no matter what, directly or indirectly. Dates, gas, clothing for dates, time which is arguably more valuable than money. What’s the difference? If you are in a drought, why not pay for it? Because of the stigma? It’s only societal programming that makes you feel it’s so “taboo” to...
  11. cola

    Dont feel like dating anymore

    Yes, I’d be lying if I said height doesn’t limit your choices the same as being fat, race, acne .. we all have something that would disqualify us to a percentage of women. Where are you meeting your women?
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    Supermarket Pickup

    I think situations like this are when it’s so priceless to know how to read IOIs (indicators of interest). This stops you from approaching women who aren’t interested and getting blown out. If you know how to read IOIs you can approach anywhere. The supermarket, bookstore, mall. Like in any...
  13. cola

    Dont feel like dating anymore

    You do know at 48 years old, assuming you are in good shape, took good care of yourself, stylish .. You are perfectly capable of dating women in their early 30s. Maybe even late 20s.
  14. cola

    Need to make a few changes.

    You can date a 20 year old? I’m a year younger than you and don’t have the patience. A 20 year old and I have so little in common. But anyway, you need to find a way to surround yourself with women. This can be a hobby, a club, volunteering anything that puts you in the vicinity of single women.
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    Experienced Players Only: The fine line between reaching out too much and being too distant ..

    i disagree. if you are out at a bar or lounge and meet a girl and exchange numbers after 15 minutes of talking, then a few days later you immediately text her and ask her on a date with zero rapport building you will either get a flat out no or get flaked on 95% of the time. There has to be some...
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    Experienced Players Only: The fine line between reaching out too much and being too distant ..

    What’s you guys strategy for navigating this line? I really prefer girls to reach out to me in a 2:1 ratio, I am not a proponent of only text to set up dates. To me that’s never worked, and you miss an opportunity to build a lot of rapport. But once in a while you meet a girl who matches you in...
  17. cola

    Ok, why did this girl ghost?

    Fake account or not you sound creepy af. “I want a friends with benefits” you don’t say sh*t like that. Way to aggressive, way too straight forward.
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    Buying Drinks

    I’ll usually pay for the first 2-3 dates. If by date three she isn’t offering to pay for something that’s a major red flag ..
  19. cola

    B*tch made men

    He’s hurt bro, give him time.
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