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A couple good articles to start with, from the aforementioned site. http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-3707.html - Looks at the question "Am I normal" by comparing personality types to personality disorders. Explains why some once beneficial traits are now considered disorders...

You want to understand what will make a girl attracted to your particular self? Understand the psychology of attraction. Read up on hormones, the brain chemistry of attraction, what physical or other traits make one attractive and why. It's helped me immensely. I can explain to anyone why I am...

She fits B but not A. I'm guessing she learned a lot with the guy in HS, in fact he asked her to marry him when she graduated highschool but she turned him down. He had been treating her like **** or something, and like any good female DJ (what would you call that?) she dumped him for his...

Some things dont have answers. The word better collects a bunch of different variables and tries to assign a weighting to them which is sums up and spits out as a single value. I am better than you because i score a 160 on the IQ test, a 6 on attractiveness, and a 9 at getting women. Disregard...

I haven't read all the posts, but...isn't honesty what a mature individual looks for in a relationship? Its a sign of weakness to tell her to hide her past, but I see nothing wrong with being bothered by it. Just take it like a man an let her vent things onto you (within reason) and give her a...

I guess what I just described isn't really poking fun at, but simply acknowledging issues. When I poke fun at myself I do things like say "you know you could easily get with that guy over there who's got 30 pounds of muscle over me, so I dunno why the hell you picked me instead". Upon which she...

Wow I didn't expect this much debate. Their not strengths and they are weaknesses. The kind that almost everyone has, but nobody else will admit to. Also, I definitely started out behind the curve; I was very shy up to the last two years or so, and that means I'm not as sociality adjusted as...

Not wanting to game her. Putting her needs at equal importance to yours. Being willing to sacrifice to make the relationship stronger. Loosing interest in other women, both physically and emotionally. Lately I've found that I look at other girls less, and don't fantasize about anyone BUT my gf...

The attitude of this site seems to be that women are lesser than men (may or may not be true on average). I'm wondering how many of you guys actually love your girlfriends, rather than simply simply gaming them till you get bored. How much would you compromise to be with her?

Everyone has shortcomings, try poking fun at your own to show that you're not bothered by them.

I'm still in college, but I'm anticipating a lot of undue stress from working full time (meaning 40 hours plus commuting, I don't consider driving to be not-working). I am living indipendently on less than $1000 a month, and am in a degree that will bring in 40k+ for full time, but I have never...

Its called being friends. My gf fits this girl perfectly. Her best friend is a guy. I don't think he's into her though, but if he is who cares right? Now if you want, tell her that her bf is lucky and you hope her the best (only say this if you mean it). This communicates that you think...

Blue. Its easier to see if if their pupils are dilated.

Ok now i read your whole post about her potentially loosing interest. At this point she knows you're into her, and is maybe a little afraid that you won't present any game at all. Find a way to see her one more time, tell her you ****ed up earlier, got ahead of yourself and she doesn't deserve...

Oh yeah, and too bad if you're needy. She should provide and you will make her want to. Set limits of course, and be firm with them. Say "until we have sex no phone calls over 10 minutes", for instance. If she asks why just say that rules are rules, she'll understand this as flirting AND want to...

I didn't read it all either (sorry...got a lot of homework that I shold be doing right now). I just wanted to say that I met my current gf of 10 months this way. I was an afd in highschool, she thought I was cute (even told the other girls but word never reached me), but was faithful to her bf...

VERY well said. You took the words out of my mouth. Yes, I will see if we can work this out between us, and if not I'll do what needs to be done.

Thanks guys. Like I said, she's a keeper unless she keeps this up. I really don't think its her looks that are keeping me attached, she's a really good person AFAIK (vegetarian for the animals...really good with kids, publicly denounces things she disagrees with, etc) with a spine and I really...

I'm in a ltr thats recently become long distance. She's a very emotional girl, very attractive and she *may* be exhibiting a little of the old 'I'm hot, do what I want or I'll make you feel guilty" syndrome. She's a great person, but just needs to be reminded that I love her more often than I...