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I think the OP is noting how a lot of gurus give “One size fits all” advice based on their personality/profile. That’s a valid criticism. You need to develop your own “game” and/or find a guru that you identify with best.

And it’s more than a cost issue. It creates isolation. Pre say 2011, clubs had more of their square footage dedicated to “public areas” where you could mingle. Bar areas, couches, large dance floors, and plenty of standing room. You could easily approach most any chick or group of chicks...

I wasn’t around in the 50s. So I would never claim they were great. I can vouch for 80s, 90s and early 2000s.

I think the push towards bottle service/tables has changed the game and scene also. Clubbing was simpler and a lot cheaper back in the day before that took off. Early 2000s: “I spent $20 on cover, $40 on drinks and pulled a ONS.” Probably now: “Me and my buddies spent 6 grand on a table...

I’m also on a home/place improvement kick. Replaced a toilet yesterday and did some yard work.

To answer the original Q, yes, it probably is soft core pron for all intents and purposes. I get your point about being “touch starved.” Honestly, if a guy isn’t dating, I don’t know of a viable, sustainable solution to that.

I think men care about compatibility and for good reason, assuming it’s with someone he wants to date. For a ONS, it’s much less important. I don’t think women care about compatibility much at all when it comes to attraction. Her tingles have nothing to do with having stuff in common...

I’ve you’ve been dating a while, she’ll might understand. But if you cancel a date during the early “probationary period,” there is a risk she will ghost you afterwards. It’s like calling in sick your first month at a job.

Another “new” name for something that already exists. It used to be called “lone wolfing.”

Yes. Also, if you bring her here, you’ll be stuck flying back and forth to visit her family. Unless you really love travel, that sounds like a pain in the azz.

Wizard Island would be a better show.

I was initially skeptical about the shoe thing, but it’s definitely true. A female coworker (and friend) noticed immediately the other day when I wore new shoes. First thing she said was, “You got good shoes with that outfit Mike.”

In theory yes; that’s all true. But it requires talent and a passion for it. That’s why I don’t recommend dance as a casual hobby unless you really think you could get good at it. I lacked the natural talent at dance and spun my wheels no matter how hard I tried. Anyway, the dance...

Over for Tresspasser-cels.

I’ll give you guys a laugh. In the very beginning, the teacher explained that the guy’s right hand goes on her left shoulder blade. I’m not Mr. Anatomy* so I was thinking to myself, “Where the F is the shoulder blade?” Lol. My partner was kind enough to explain “Your right hand goes on my...

It’s their attempt at a “comeback” to the ‘cel term femoid or foid.

I took ballroom for about 5 years during that 2010s at the advice here and from a much older coworker. Pros: 1. Fun hobby. 2. Hot teacher lol. Cons: 1. I found it near impossible to socialize. Students would show up to class 5 minutes before and leave immediately after. Obviously you...

New England in general is not really recommended for dating.

Halo Effect probably plays into it too. If you dress two guys the same (with good style), the better looking guy is more likely to get complimented on his clothing. That’s one reason why mileage can vary on this.

It’s some older PUA club advice because some guys were getting heavy makeouts without pulls. The idea was to kiss briefly at most and leave her wanting more before suggesting that you leave together. TLDR: It was early 2000s club ONS advice, not really dating advice.