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    how far to go during push/pull

    how am i going into the friendzone if i dont even initiate most of the stuff we end up doing? doesnt that mean she has some kind of interest if shes the one contacting me? im confused. i thought i was doing ok, we havent hung out THAT much one on one. usually its just casual stuff chit chat...
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    how far to go during push/pull

    im in college and displayed some interest in this girl (known her for like 5 weeks), but when she started giving me the LJBF vibe, i started not caring as much and invested a lot less energy in her. 3 weeks later, i think i have been getting some IOIs..though not obvious ones...it's a hunch...
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    she has a BOYFRIEND, but i want her!

    am i in the friendship hole BECAUSE i bought her that little gift? or..b/c she already has a bf. she is really fun to hang out with and i would like to hang out with her more, but will this get myself even deeper into the hole? how do i prevent that?
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    she has a BOYFRIEND, but i want her!

    basically ive been into this girl recently. shes really friendly and it seems that as long as you take the initiative to talk to her she will be friendly and engage in good conversation with you (based on my observation when other guys first meet her). The thing is that her being really nice...
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    testing the waters? friend or lover?

    I'm in college and friends with a girl...not super close nor just acquaintances. We have eaten a few times and hung out at each others' places. I have flaked on her (not call back or follow up on details for an outing) and vice versa. We were introduced to each other and now have mutual...
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    college girl convos

    anyone?
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    college girl convos

    i am not of drinking age and live on campus. in lecture, i was thinking along the lines of "hey, so..what do you think of this class so far? pretty tough huh?" to get some talk going and seeing if shes receptive or something i can work with. then when class lets out: "wow, i thought this class...
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    college girl convos

    So let's say in college, I see some girl I'm interested in and I talk to her. That's not too bad. But then what do you do if you want to see her again? For example, in a crowded lecture hall, I sit next to a girl and talk. Before the class lets out what should I say if i want to see her...
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    Got burned really badly

    maybe its just me but its more intimidating to me if a girl im approaching is in a set. perhaps its cus i think her friends will judge me and pull her away. how do u guys go about this especially if you dont have a wingman? do you believe that any guy can get a girl to dance with her provided...
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    Got burned really badly

    Hey guys. i went to a club last week feeling good and anticipating some grinding with chicks since im pretty decent at getting girls to dance with me. BUT, i totally got burned several times. situation: i went with a group of friends and we danced as a group...many of them were in a...
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    club approaches

    ^that seems true; just having fun. but if you there is a girl that you wanna dance with (who is currently in a pair with her girl friend or in a circle of friends) how would one "take her away" from the set to dance with you? jumping into the circle seems tacky. sometimes one doesnt want to be...
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