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this girl the classic type that doesn't know what she wants. Talking about laying in bed could have been a test to see what you're after or she genuinely wants you to feed into it. Don't feed into it, tell her how laying in bed with her kinda scares you because she might try to take advantage...

This is true. The right state of mind is what seems to come and go. I believe confidence is what puts you into that state because it seems after getting a few laughs out of some people right before or having a your friends with you, its a lot easier to roll out a good chit chat with a new...

Something I've noticed about the guys I know that seem to have HB's fighting over them and never really have any problem with women are guys that have one special thing about them that separates them from the herd. Everyone knows them because of the one thing that they are amazing at. It could...

Nothing quite as bad as some of these although I did write poetry for a girl once but she was already in love with me and it never lowered her IL. So the worst I can think of that I used to do often was when girl would break up with me I would try to talk them out of it and tell them it could...

I agree that there are a lot of people on this site that just don't give a sh!t about your situation or what you're trying to discuss and so they post ignorant responses that only aim to dissolve the discussion or sidetrack it with some whinny feud that serves no purpose. However, I do see that...

A lot of times people think they need an event to get a girl to hang out. Not so true but IL does play a big part in what you can get her to go along with. Just invite her to check out some music with you so you can get a second opinion or something like that. Doesn't have to be an event, just...

Being fearless doesn't necessarily transcend into confidence BUT confidence DOES transcend into fearlessness. Knowing what you are capable of is what gives you confidence or lack of. Try learning to do something you never thought you could possibly do and you will increase your confidence...

Small talk has enormous relevance when it comes to meeting women because saying nothing gets you nothing and the inability to carry on conversation long enough to get a foot in the door can have real drawbacks in your ability to land women. Sure small talk may seem insignificant considering its...

Success in any endeavor definitely has to do with personal appeal. I agree that success to one person may not be to another. Images of success can be very misleading because most people don't really understand it like they think they do. To be successful with women means being universally...

True. I have had much better success when I have been able to remain calm and confident. If you can keep from being nervous you can be much more observant and think clearer about what you're going to say. I guess a real problem for me is that since I haven't had a lot of practice...

Small talk is one of the most versatile tools a person has in their arsenal when dealing with the world at large. As simple as it seems considering people engage in small talk everyday, it is also one of the most elusive skills to master. Small talk allows us to make new friends and gain...