I'm inclined to disagree with this tip too. It sounds like something guys do back in high school.
I agree it demonstrates a bit of humor on your part. But I don't see how it demonstrates confidence.
I guess if you're not gonna see the girl anymore, you have nothing to lose by doing it...
There are two types of guys in the world:
those who make things happen...and those who resign themselves to fate/luck.
You are the latter. You don't think you can control your own destiny. You think life has already been scripted and you just follow the flow. If that's how you want to...
There is nothing wrong with doing/giving something "romantic" early in the courtship
I know DJism would say that you never pursue the girl -- that you should let the girl pursue you -- and that you should never try impressing her.
But sometimes, a girl simply doesn't have romantic...
Exactly.
Also, attraction creates tension. Tension creates inconsistant behavior that comes off as "mixed signals"
If a girl is 100% consistant, she probably doesn't like you and think of you only as a friend.
A lot of you wannabe DJs should drop the notion that a girl has to be into...
Very good post!
Inexperienced guys tend to think that girls like clingy guys....because guys like clingy girls (right?!) and all that Mr Nice Guy BS out there in the movies. But the fact is, guys and girls DO NOT THINK ALIKE. Do not assume charms that work on a man will work on a women...
Very attractive chicks have it easy. Problem is, 95% of girls don't fit into this catagory.
In the long run, it's still more favorable to be a man. Even if you're not born attractive, there are a zillion things to do to improve your attractiveness.
Not to mention, a women's beauty...
I do have to agree somewhat with the original post. During the moments in which there are no girls in my life, I feel far less stress. Where there are girls, there is pain.
But if you're that afraid of pain and getting hurt, you might as well live your life in a closet.
I have two Asian friends in their late 20s who has never even been on a date let alone having a girlfriend. They're not ugly or overly-shy either. They're college graduates with somewhat successful careers.
I know it's hard to believe. But they grew up in an Asian environment where...
There is touching and there is TOUCHING.
If a girl touches you when making a point during a conversation, that means nothing. But if she goes out of her way to touch you or repeatedly touch you, yes, it probably signals sexual interest.
Attractive women between 18 and 25 have it easy. Unattractive ones do not. And even if a women is attractive, her window of opportunity is only a few years wide.
For men, you can attract young girls your entire life. So overall, men have it better.
You think girls get attention only because of Myspace?! NEWSFLASH: Girls have always gotten special attention from men, whether it's cyberspace or back when Homo Erectus lived in caves.
Getting that "special attention" feeling is a relative concept. If girls get a lot of attention on...
Agreed. It's BS that she's THAT busy where she can't carve out a hour or two during the week. Nobody is that busy, not even the President. You'd have to ask yourself if she's busy...or just too busy for you. And if you accept her excuse, is it because it's a valid excuse or is it just...
Young girls just love hearing their phone ring...so they F-ing give it to anyone who'd take it. It's an ego booster for them to have it ring constantly.
Good news is, if she gives you hers, at least she doesn't think you're a disgusting psycho and may actually welcome hearing your voice.
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