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Thanks tmpgstx. I need to keep reminding myself, I'm in love with what I thought she was, or what she could be, not with what she is. It helps, not a lot, but some.

Stupid question: Stupid question: I suppose the sneaky techniques - planting ideas in a woman's head that she wants you without her realizing it - are not recommended for guys like me to use on my one-itis. I mean, what do you suppose would happen if I did use some super heavy duty DJ...

Years ago I remember reading some RJ material and he talks about how you fall in love with someone. He says you really don't fall in love with someone when you're around them. You fall in love with them when you're NOT around them, and you daydream about them and build them up in your minds...

Agreed. The only thing I'm "passionate" about, if you can call it that, is avoiding anything uncomfortable, inconvenient, challenging, etc. And clinging to the old, the familiar, the easy. Secretly I've always WANTED to be a person who actually enjoys life instead of hides from it, but when...

Funny thing is, my 2 ex-friends (and now I have none) were just like me or worse. I guess people who are alike gravitate toward each other. This one guy had at least had girlfriends, whereas I'm 33 and only got my 1st girlfriend earlier this year. Women have found him good looking (which is...

I once read some literature by RJ and he suggests for increasing the effectiveness of affirmations: read the affirmations in one order, while at the same time playing the affirmations on a tape recorder in a different order. So the tape recorder is always playing a different affirmation than...

:nervous:.....anyone?

What makes my story even more pathetic is that I've never even been in a romantic relationship with this woman. She's an exotic dancer. Fell madly in love with her maybe 12 years ago. Told her I had feelings for her but she only liked me as a friend (said I don't express myself enough; I asked...

Many of these questions I already know the answer to, but simply need elaboration on the answers. 1. Is it EVER okay to use your love of a woman (who you have ONEitis for, not one who loves you back already) as your motivation to become "all that you can be"? I mean, what if the person...