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Every man remembers the first time he realized he was on his own. Just stumbling through life and figuring things out the hard way. For some of us, that realization hits hardest when it comes to dating and masculinity. No guide. No mentor. Just trial and error—mostly error. The truth is...

I’ve been in this game for a while, and if there’s one lesson I’d pass on to anyone struggling with rejection, fear, or frustration, it’s this: treat learning game (ie socializing, confidence, talking to girls, etc) like playing an actual video game. Why? Because this mindset makes it way easier...

One of life skills as an adult we have to learn is emotional management and self-awareness, but approaching women- even for the best of us- can be scary. But approach anxiety is something we all have to deal with as men. Approaching girls is actually easy to learn, but hard to master. Not...

Sure, but it's an iterative process. You take action, even in the face of fear, and both the action itself and the feedback you receive incrementally builds your confidence. Taking the action builds up your emotional resilience while you adjust your actions according to the real world feedback...

There’s definitely something to be said about choosing a setting where the odds of success feel more favorable, especially for beginners. You’re right that context matters, and yeah, if a guy is brand new to this, it makes sense to start in a lower-stakes environment like a social gathering...

A lot of guys think, “I’ll approach her once I feel confident.” But here’s the deal: confidence isn’t just some feeling you can wait for—it’s the result of action. Studies show that acting, even when you don’t feel ready, is one of the best ways to build skill-based competence, which naturally...

I'm 5'5, Asian, and a below average face. At my fattest, I was 201 lb (now 141lb and 10% Body Fat). It takes a lot of work, but it is entirely possible to out compete, out work, and out game other men who are taller, better looking and white. It's certainly by no means easy, but it is doable...

Here’s something interesting: up to 93% of communication is nonverbal. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, 55% of what we communicate comes from body language, 38% from tone of voice, and only 7% from the words we use. So, if English isn’t your first language or you’re not fully confident in it...

Eh, I was 201 lb 5’5 Asian with a below average face and I was still pulling baddies far outside my league. I now have 10% BF and a six pack and there’s not much difference in attracting women. Granted I’m an outlier in that I spent a lot of effort in learning socializing skills to compete at a...

It was 10:15pm on a Saturday night during bootcamp, and my students were feeling the early jitters. Across from us, there was a table of about 10 people, but all my students was still too anxious to approach so early on, even for a warm-up set. I told them to stay put and just watch me. As I...

Thanks! Here’s a modern compilation video for you to keep up with the times: https://youtube.com/shorts/ltK3HHvHFv8?si=KY9cDD1tPT7YBwOC

If you’ve ever wondered why some guys seem to effortlessly attract women while others struggle to even get noticed, one key factor could be tonality—the way your voice sounds when you're speaking. ️ Most guys focus too much on what they say, but science shows us that how we say something often...

http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/text-to-sex-the-rapid-sextcalation-ladder/ When I first started studying sexting or text flirting interactions, it was a hard journey to success and results. It wasn’t long before I understood how to get any girl to respond to your texts through sexting...

For the first time ever, I am FINALLY launching my first real product. After 7 years in the community, I am providing digital products for people to download and watch. Long story short, we are looking for affiliates to help promote our product launch. If you have a newsletter list, forum...

6. She’s Attached To Her Phone: These hot girls can’t escape the constant explosions they get from people via calls, texts, Facebook, Twitter…it never ends with them! Girls screen their phone calls – it’s no secret – but it’s because if they don’t, they’d be on the phone ALL DAY LONG. It’s not...

10 Signs You’re Dating a Hot Crazy Mess of a Model http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/10-signs-youre-dating-a-hot-crazy-mess-of-a-model/ In one of my all-time favorite shows, “How I Met Your Mother,” there’s an absolutely hilarious character named Barney Stinson that is obviously based off a...

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And here's the rest. Almost 70 minutes of pure informational gold on everything text & phone game related. Part 4 - iGame: What to text when she gives you a NEGATVE response http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0y5A4CYV0E0 Part 5 - iGame: The ULTIMATE iGame Texting Flowchart...

Everything you wanted to know about phone & text message game. This is actually like a 70 minute free seminar we gave. Here's the first 30 minutes answering a ****load of questions about calling the girl, texting here, etc. Part 1 - The three purposes of calling and texting: Making Plans...

Here's a PUA Drill video on running AMOG Defense/Offense. This is meant for more casual club settings where you're being casually AMOGGED by random guys while you're with a girl: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLhEAFk7CA8