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    How often should I call? Cultural differences?

    Thanks for your opinion. Anyone else have anything to add?
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    How often should I call? Cultural differences?

    I'm currently dating a Chinese woman (I'm Chinese myself, though both of us are well-adapted to North-American customs), we've been seeing each other for about 2 months on a weekly (and occasionally bi-weekly) basis. Now, things are going well between us, but recently, I've been having other...
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    Dating a girl - Problem with competition

    I'm Asian, oneitis is hard-coded into my blood. :D
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    Dating a girl - Problem with competition

    Thank you for your advice, ppl. I'm definitely beginning to feel like a damn pawn in her stupid game of 'Who can entertain me better?' The more I think about this, the less I'm attracted to her and the less needy I feel. I have two months left of summer left, and if in that time we don't...
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    Dating a girl - Problem with competition

    I'm seeing a girl right now who's great, except she's casually dating this other dude who asked her out. She claims that she's been passive when she's with the guy (ie: she doesn't initiate anything), and that the guy's been taking it slow really slow (ie: he tried to hold hands on their last...
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    Ok, so for the next date, where should I take her? Another outdoor date, an amusement park date, a dinner date, or should I let her pick something she'd lilke to do?
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    Ok, that's the feeling I was getting. I read so many articles, and they're all like 'go for the kiss, go for the kiss!!', and I always thought I'd be rushing things by doing that.
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    Thanks for your responses. If anyone else has anything to add, feel free to do so.
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    I'm 22. I will definitely try for a real kiss next time, but I certainly won't push past a certain point.
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    UPDATE Well, here's an update of what's happened so far. I called her up several days later, and linvited her to an outdoor play date, where we would fly kites and toss frisbees, and such. She accepted, and I arranged this for Sunday evening. There was little wind, so kite flying took a lot...
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    Thank you, PuertoRican_lover. I think I needed that stern reminder.
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    Thanks for the advice, HuuBinh. I'd also like to hear from some other DJs on this forums. Your hard-earned wisdom would also be very helpful.
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    First date in a long time - Dangerous feelings, please HELP.

    I just had my first date in a long time tonight. My first relationship didn't go very smoothly, and this time around I want to do it right. After the date, which mainly consisted of us casually chatting, and realizing that we have an insanely ALOT in common, I'm feeling all these gooey feelings...
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