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  1. Michael Chief

    YouTuber does 100 ask outs to overcome fear of rejection

    Feel free to edit your original post with this "friend link" that bypasses the paywall: https://medium.com/hello-love/youtuber-asks-out-100-girls-to-overcome-fear-of-rejection-9081dc2f6443?sk=4989fee3ee2c8baaceba8c92d9333342 Thanks for posting my Medium article!
  2. Michael Chief

    Harsh Truth: You will never beat women in the dating game

    If you honestly believe that the average woman is walking about with a triple digit laycount then I don't know what to tell you
  3. Michael Chief

    Harsh Truth: You will never beat women in the dating game

    Just because you have more options doesn't mean you get more of whatever you're trying to get in the end. Leads are not the same thing as sales. Practically every woman I meet is less sexually experienced than me, has had fewer relationships than I've had, has dated fewer people at the same...
  4. Michael Chief

    UC Berkeley professor tells student to 'get out of the Bay Area' if they want a girlfriend

    I used to live in the Bay Area. The ratio of men to women will not do you any favors. The locals call San Jose "Man Jose," and San Francisco has a sports team called the "49ers," which is also local slang for women who are "4s" but act like "9s" since, due to the heavily skewed gender ratio...
  5. Michael Chief

    LR: Leveraging her crush for SNL

    I was originally not going to write about this because it seemed like just a simple SNL ONS, but upon further reflection I realized that there might not be a lot of LRs that demonstrate one of the key themes here. I was hanging out at one of my favorite bars with a casual atmosphere. It was a...
  6. Michael Chief

    How do regular guys without game get a girlfriend?

    "Game" is just us trying to emulate what works in the real world. Some guys grew up with good circumstances that allowed them to "naturally" learn those skills. Those are the kind of guys who would read a PUA book and say that it's all just common sense to them.
  7. Michael Chief

    Women gaining weight in LTRs/marriages

    Asking this to research for an article. Has anyone here been in a situation where your girlfriend or wife gained any significant weight after getting comfortable in your LTR or marriage, but was able to successfully get in shape again? Why and how did she do it? Did you play any part in that?
  8. Michael Chief

    It's so simple=The eyes have it

    It's better to assess a woman's interest in you by actually approaching and talking to her. It could be possible, as others in this thread have suggested, that she seemed to show interest with her eyes for different reasons. It could be possible that some women are shy and won't make or hold...
  9. Michael Chief

    Providing for Women

    A relationship or marriage is a failure as soon as either party starts seeing it as a transactional "deal"
  10. Michael Chief

    My almost positive cold approach experience

    Nice. What did you do differently?
  11. Michael Chief

    Women with cats > Women with dogs, I miss the crazy cat ladies.

    Girls who have and love their pets tend to be sweeter and more feminine. It's the ones with pets but don't actually give a sh!t about them that are problematic. I can see the logic of "girls with cats > girls with dogs." I heard cats require more boundaries and cat owners need to be more...
  12. Michael Chief

    Plus Sized

    The market will speak
  13. Michael Chief

    Cosmetic surgery

    I was going to say the same thing until OP mentioned his wife is Asian. Korean cosmetic surgery culture affects Koreans and East Asians a bit differently. It's more normalized. This is not something you should ever be concerned with. Welcome the "challenge" because it's nothing. That's what...
  14. Michael Chief

    Field report - Good use of false time constraint

    Wow, haven't heard that one in MANY years. You pulled that off nicely. There are many ways you can go from here. @AmsterdamAssassin 's suggestion is just one of many that can work. Just depends on your style and her personality.
  15. Michael Chief

    If she calls you a "red flag"

    I was talking with a dude who said there was a female coworker who kept touching him, playfully hitting him, etc. It was clear from his story that she was flirting with him. However, he said he wasn't so sure because she called him a "red flag" before. Logically, in his male brain, red flag =...
  16. Michael Chief

    Research says 50% of women have a backup partner in mind when in a relationship

    And I'd wager that about 100% of straight men in mono relationships have other women in mind that they'd like to smash if they found themselves suddenly single.
  17. Michael Chief

    Bumping ancient threads

    How are you finding those old posts? Genuinely very curious as a former forum mod. Also my third and final time asking (not a threat lol).
  18. Michael Chief

    article: Men Are Sharing Difficult Parts Of Modern Dating, And As A Woman, I Never Thought Of Some Of These

    So the whole article is just a woman who copy/pasted a reddit thread of men's comments without giving any of her thoughts or commentary aside from the couple of sentences she wrote in the introduction... Worse than a reaction video...
  19. Michael Chief

    Bumping ancient threads

    When I was a mod on a now-defunct PUA forum, this became such a common issue that we specifically made a rule against it. To this day I still have no idea the process that these people go through to revive old threads, and I am genuinely curious as to how they're even finding such old threads...
  20. Michael Chief

    any 50 shades of grey stories?

    You think someone who posted in 2012 is going to come back to tell you that SS means SoSuave.net? How are you finding all these extremely old posts to bring back from the dead anyway? I am genuinely curious.
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