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If a woman words it like that (cold with no remorse or sincere apology), it's not just a cancel but a complete blow off! In which case, in addition to what Blaine Anderson advised in my OP, not replying would be okay too! I agree that when a woman is interested unless it's extremely personal...

Hi nick, this is concerning. If you're an overall healthy person, it's typically not normal to be getting sick so often regardless of how many times per week you go out. At most you'd be tired from lack of sleep or too much booze, but not so sick that you're unable to live your life as you...

^^Fair enough but if you delete her, you won't know if she tried to reach out or not... hence you lost the opportunity for her to come to your bedroom and pay! :p Not all last minute cancels are flakes, some are legit, shyt does happen sometimes. Could be so many things. But okay gotta do...

I agree and it's not what Blaine Anderson suggested. She only advised to be chill about it and then leave it. Don't reach out again, don't chase. The ball is in her court. Did you read the article? :D I dunno, if you have abundance not sure what the huge deal is that you have to delete her...

A genuine burning desire? Before a first date? Or second? That's quite a requirement so early in but okay.

I would agree except the majority of men who post here are not successful at catching fish. You have said so yourself. I dunno why not try something new on? Like not making unfounded assumptions, again her reason might be perfectly legit and she will reach out in a few days? If you...

I just want to say that as a woman, I do like the response from @Solomon "OK, let me know when you're free." And what @BackInTheGame78 posted. It's quite direct but it's strong. Then leave it, the ball is in her court! In fact there were times even if/when my interest was lukewarm, him being...

I was kinda with ya that it IS personal on some level other than for the reasons outlined in @Bokanovsky post...until I came to this^^. You definitely should not take that personally IMO. Her rejecting you because you don't look like her hipster Brad ex with $$$ or a hot movie star or famous...

I don't agree with bolded @Dr_jitsu . Yes, you should have other phone numbers and options, which is precisely why there is no need to act so impulsively and emotionally and delete/block her number. Which IS an emotional reaction indicating you're butt hurt on some level.. It's what I would...

"Okay cool, thanks for letting me know." That's it! Do not act frustrated, pissed off, guilt trip, call her out etc etc. This comes from Blaine Anderson (female), a professional dating coach. Are any of you guys familiar? This article was in my feed this morning and thought it was pretty...

^^Fabulous! We're in agreement then. :D .

I don't know what your past relationships have been like but not all relationships function this way. Mine doesn't! YAWN. You just haven't found the right girl yet... or perhaps you have? The way you described the girl whose cat died (overlooking her mental issues) sounded close. I mean...

I agree! And so should women! I also agree with the thread title that men should not have to prove himself through sex. 100%! That said... For me part of being "good" at sex is caring about HIS pleasure not just my own. Like when I'm giving him a BJ for example. I love his p*nis but it's...

@BPH just wondering, are you at all concerned about the high mercury levels in tuna? I would love to eat tuna every day but I've read and heard that eating tuna more than 2-3 times per week at most can be quite hazardous to one's health. One woman posted on SM that she ate tuna every day for...

You post some good stuff @Dr_jitsu but with regard to this^ I do not feel this way and would never advise a man to behave that way. Course I'm just one woman and agree there are many women who do claim to want that. And then when a man does behave that way, suddenly they lose interest and...

Thanks NJ but you misjudged why I posted that. Of course I don't really believe it, it's not my experience at all!! I asked @Glassguy as I was hoping he would refute it which he did. So did @Dr.Suave (sort of) and now you. Thank you! Maybe just maybe the person who posted it will reconsider...

. That was tongue-n-cheek not to mention apparently you didn't read my subsequent posts. :p

Awesome post @Glassguy and appreciate your posting it! Would you mind sharing her age and if she's had prior relationships? Reason I ask is because I just read a post advising not to bother with women 25+ who have had prior relationships (except to have sex with them) as they are past their...

No NJ, my dad had an accident and hit his head and died of a brain bleed, which sadly was caught too late. My mom died of lung cancer after smoking for years, and my brother had an undetected melanoma that traveled to his brain. :(

@BPH I just want to add that not receiving so much as a "thank you" for the thoughtful card you sent was imo rude and reflects a clear lack of interest. I mean she did not even acknowledge it! I am now wondering if she's even depressed. It may have been an excuse to fade out slowly. I mean...