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^^Don't underestimate yourself @sangheilios . Firstly because upon the initial approach women have no idea if a man is "older" especially if it's only 5-6 years. Nor would a man know how old she is! Nor would a woman know his financial and social status. I'm talking about initial...

Doubtful. I think it's more this: Especially when their partner has a habit of losing their shyt when presented with behavior from their partner they dislike, don't approve of or violates their personal boundaries. As @BeExcellent said both genders are guilty of this..

Just wanted to clarify with respect to my response here^^ and how I interpreted the thread title, I was referring to the initial meet, whether a spontaneous approach, from an app or however else. Obviously (at least to most) once you're IN a relationship or begin dating, it ALL matters in some...

Lol well HE may have found her hot.. who the hell knows! He has uploaded pics of some of the women he's approached who he found hot... I (and others) were a bit shocked but hey everyone has different tastes right?

I don't believe @We_ArE_VeNOM is seeking a "high quality girl" necessarily...he's just seeking a woman he finds hot and is down to f***. In which case Mode One could work. My read on it anyway

Agree and adding one more - his energy! Or perhaps that falls under his "presence"? Not sure why energy gets discounted so often.. a man's great energy can trump all those things mentioned imo. On the other hand, he could be a total Chad in every sense of the word but if his energy is piss...

I have read and heard from several men including men I've dated but also in the support group I used to attend that men don't really care how old a woman "is" but rather how old a woman "looks." Where I'm from (upper middle class suburban NY) we were taught to never ask a person their age until...

I do believe that "falling in love" feeling, infatuation, limerence can be likened to a sort of temporary insanity (this has been written about) and once that settles down, that's when a couple can truly "love." However it's still romantic love. Not sure how a marriage or a relationship can...

^^100% agree! Maybe it's me but these^^ two statements seem to contradict. I mean you say in marriage there needs to be passion and longing and all those intoxicating feelings but aren't those feelings borne and exist from romantic love? But yet you say many marriages fail because of...

So it's a different type of love? Not the hot, passionate "makes you crazy with all the highs and lows, ups and downs" love... but rather a more stable peaceful love which can become somewhat mundane at times, but it feels safe and secure. And she has money!! @New_Journey is that what you mean?

Totally get this^^ saige but and this is just how I personally view it.. size still matters in some form or fashion, reason being... It's the difference between having a man be a perfect fit and having sex be essentially effortless in that regard and... A man not being a good fit - whether a...

Hi saige I didn't actually say that, @BeExcellent did. I said it was both size and motion (how he uses it).... and to add -- our connection. It's funny this exact same discussion is currently happening on another forum and so I will ask you the same question I asked a woman on that forum...

Another female perspective... I've always been intrigued by large ships and with respect to motion of the ocean I get seasick so...:lol: Seriously though I think it's BOTH the size and the motion and it's subjective... what's large (or small) for one girl may not be for another. But generally...

I don't want to start a war but OP stated she told him she wasn't ready to kiss just yet it was too soon she didn't feel comfortable or something like that. He respected her boundaries and chose to not escalate at that time. Another poster I think it was NJ said she was "shyt testing" him. A...

It's never over until the fat lady sings...:rofl:

To add @New_Journey I refer you to your own post yesterday (or the day prior) where you posted you failed to escalate and you got harshly criticized for it. You responded (paraphrasing) "Patience. A true DJ is patient." Imo you did the right thing in that situation. You felt the situation...

Actually yes I have. It was what that particular situation called for at the time. Dating and life in general is not black and white. It's nuanced with various shades of gray and it's important to learn to differentiate among those various shades. As our OP said, you were not...

@crowolf this^^ is exactly right. One of the signs of emotional intelligence is to be aware of how women respond to you and act/respond accordingly. You can't just pounce on every hot woman you encounter just because you're thirsty and wanna f*** them. If you do, you end up coming off as an...

I'm gonna have to disagree with this^. Wholeheartedly! It makes you sound angry, bitter and butt hurt. It's certainly what I would think and have thought when in this girl's shoes. More times than I can count! Not a good look and not how you want to come across. Unless you want to blow any...

^^I vote for what's in bold with one exception. Don't ghost completely, simply dial it back and fade out gradually... Why? You're friends and ghosting is rude and disrespectful. Just because she's not currently into you the way you're into her, that doesn't make her a bad person, a rude...