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Just to follow up the majority of you were wrong. The general consensus was that I was immature and i’d never hear from her again. A lot of personal insults flew my way which I find ironic considering its from guys calling me immature. Throwing insults on an online forum to someone you don’t...

Then there´s the other question of do I want a woman who after great leg shaking sex decides on a whim the next morning that she doesn´t want to. A high quality woman should generally be ready when I want (of course there´s exceptions) seems a lot of guys here too ready to accept her behaviour...

Yes I think this is a good analysis of her perspective that she could have felt that I was only interested in sex. However obviously this has some months of context. But in isolation yes she could have felt that I was only interested in sex because she refused and I took her home. In context it...

Withdrawing attention is not a tantrum. I was extremely calm and decided to carry on with my day - don´t be so presumptuous.

She came over to mine we talked then we had great sex and went out to dinner, then we came back to mine listened to some music and slept together with lots of cuddling/affection. So it wasn´t a ´´a few minutes´´. And the sex was rewarded with dinner, cuddles and affection. The next morning was...

Seeing a 22 year old chick for a couple months and smashed her several times. A couple days ago we hooked up in the evening and smashed her as usual but she was extremely wet to the point that I had to change rubbers mid-way through. She orgasmed and in my view it was the best sex we´ve had to...

Interesting this. Aren’t women more attracted to men who they are uncertain about how they feel? If I text her all day, give her loads of attention, tell her lots of sweet things she will be safe and pull away. Why should I make her feel safe when we’re not in a relationship?

Very true and girls radar to sense the game is real. But we’re not dumb too. I run 3 businesses across 3 countries it involves being on my phone kinda 24/7. I know for a fact I’m busier than her. And the truth is girls check their phone every 2 minutes. So whether its games or not the point is...

Saw her in the morning on the way to work she has responded to my withdrawal by withdrawing herself and being in the corner in a little mood lol. I’m still acting like she doesn't exist and not sure if I should end it and pull her in or wait it out for her to come to me?

Good question honestly not 100% sure but i guess a relationship which is more regular in meet ups/contact.

Isn’t it just naive to not play games? The whole thing is a game just can’t come across as games but rather that you’re busy/aloof. You’re probably right that at times it may come across as a game and there’s an art in playing a game but not so obviously that I’m still learning how to get right.

Seeing a 21 year old chick (i’m 36) i started off a bit keen and realised she playing hard to get so pulled back and mirrored her. We’ve met and had sex 4 times over around 2.5 months. She openly admitted to me that she is holding back because she doesn't want to get hurt . I withdrew attention...

Thanks so you’ve said what not to do. Can you be more constructive what should i do now?

Yeah I thought it was to weed out guys who go psycho chasing after them which is literally the opposite of what I’m doing?

Yeah I was concerned about her having that perception and her thinking that i’m not sure of myself or like Stanley said “clingey”. I think some of my actions have definitely suggested that but also at times i’ve covered it up well enough for her to **** me twice. I guess she doesn’t know I am...

Thanks bro agree it’s immature and also agree it’s clingy from both which is fine for her but I don't want to behave that way hence trying to play it a bit cooler. But what to do next is my issue. What I want is for it to be more natural and less game playing.

Hi first post here but been following a while. Seeing a chick she’s 21 and i’m 32. We been on 2 dates and had sex both times. She always been a bit slow/minimal on texting and so I didn’t feel a high interest level from her. So I met with her and said I’m not sure it’s working for me. She asked...