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  1. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Seems a lot of you guys are hardcore red pill. I get it. I’ve done the non monogamous thing, sex clubs, strippers, club girls, lawyers, brokers, I’ve wheeled women here and there and the thrill of the chase is wearing off tbh. I’m at a point in my life where it’s starting to feel hollow. Yeah...
  2. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    UPDATE. she messaged me last night in the middle of the night to ask if Iknew Facebook dating was a thing. I guess she just discovered it and panicked probably wondering if I have an account. I just replied, yea it’s a thing. It’s 1 am go to sleep No further contact. I ain’t no toy. I have a...
  3. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Not familiar with Cluster B. Have to look into this ****. We didn’t go out but I did see her the other evening. It was fun, we caught up. Laughed. The best friend element was there and I had missed that. The sexual energy was high but I held back and was confident and casual. I could tell she...
  4. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    No ablo No hablo
  5. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    The fact is it is her loss. I’m a ****ing deadly guy.
  6. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Likely right. There’s past **** I can’t share with you guys. But I’ll say this. When she shuts off she shuts off. To everyone. There’s ten layers of unavailability on top of how she really feels. If I play hard game. She’s gone. If I stick around and kiss her ass, I’m a sucker. There’s no play...
  7. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    It’s true. I’ll never truly know and it doesn’t matter really. But from her personality and her approach to life, I’d be inclined to believe her. She’s the type to just speak the truth and let the person hearing it take it how they want. but eh. Like I said I’ll never know.
  8. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    I’ve never heard of a few of those, thanks for the tip. As for last night, it went well. Not how I dreamed it would. Was our first time seeing each other since the fight and breakup. We hugged. I did the work. Her animals she adopted loved me. We sat and talked. She volunteered that she had cut...
  9. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Also. Thanks everyone.
  10. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    I like that philosophy. I’ve fluctuated between jaded and eager for years. Trying to find a balance. Her and I were on track for an LTR till one righteous fight and the aftermath. I’m not defending her. But this is her way of seeing if a spark still exists. My following through is my way of...
  11. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    I do have some game. I’m good looking, work out and have my **** mostly together. A lot of it is residual stuff from reading Mystery Method and the Game well over a decade ago, a lot of it has worn off. I’ve gotten by on looks and charm so I’m glad I found this forum
  12. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    This is likely. Yes, this is oneitis. But is that so wrong? The age I grew up in, watching my mother and father stick together through life despite hardships, that age is over. Those days are gone. Instagram ruined the world. Games are life now. Oneitis is fine with me as long as I maintain the...
  13. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    k I’m gonna grenade this thread pretty quick. I’m not trying to be a tough guy. Everything I’ve said is in response to someone’s comments. I ain’t angry. Nobody is angry. I just don’t have the patience to link my replies to specific comments. Anyways. You guys can all pat yourselves on the back.
  14. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    I think it’s likely number two. She’s a fatherless girl who dated drug dealers and HA till she got beat too bad and then we met. Thought we had a thing. Well you guys were right. She had to ‘work late’, on a Sat. When she works from her laptop and sets her own hours. I didn’t ask questions. I...
  15. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    You guys are more dramatic than she is Jesus. The rims have been sitting in my parkade for a month. I didn’t buy them. I’m not out a cent. And I had given my word long ago that I would swap them over. It takes a solid 25 mins. Not doing it or making her pick them up would be petty. I’m not a...
  16. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Thanks for the first constructive advice. Great points. I’ve been keeping her at a distance for months now and she’s been ‘checking in’ at increasing frequency. She doesn’t know much of anything except that work is good, life is good, I’m good. She actually messaged me last night about how to...
  17. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    Lol you guys are savage I love it. Def came to the wrong place. She wants to come back cause after the initial freak out I went radio silent. Google some Coach Lee if you’re curious. It’s driving her crazy that I have a sick like and I’m handsome and she has no idea what I’m up to now. The...
  18. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    That’s valuable thanks man. I’ve been down the divorce road also a few years back. This meet is inevitable. Perhaps you’re right maybe I’ll never regain that ‘pedestal.’ But to move on fully I have to see this through as I’m not fully available for anything meaningful until I do.
  19. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    of course I’m not ok with it. She did go out of her way to tell me it was over between them. Plus I’ve ****ed probably 11 or 12 girls in the last two months so
  20. ColdTony

    1st date with Ex. Need advice.

    I’ll go through the posts. But this is gonna happen. I’ve done the date an ex thing before. I know how it can go, but I have to see it through to its conclusion. The break up was my fault so I want to shoot my shot and know I played it as best as possible. People break up, and rekindle...
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