It means you're doing everything correctly. She's nervous, her hamster is spinning, that's why she posed that stupid question. Just gently and calmly tell her that you're busy doing other things, and that replying instantly has never been your habit. That's it. She can either accept it or get...
That being said, if you're a dude and you're having a miserable life, then the root of that is not from the lack of a woman, but something else, be it discipline, mental health, economy, finance, working out at the gym, good hobbies... etc... ANYTHING BUT woman.
At the end of the day, no women can make a man happy.
Yes, good women could contribute to a man's happiness, for example the guy's happy level is 8, and the presence of a good woman could boost that to 9 of 9.5.
But if the guy is having a miserable life, for example his happy level is 3, then...
OP, at such a young age, it's totally reasonable and natural that you're taking your breakup too painful.
I know how that feels. We all do. We all have been there.
Now, do as @Barrister told you: Go through every single page in the No Contact thread in this forum.
It's also natural you are...
Update: I fvcked her countless times and am now holding solid frame now. And one critical lesson I gained is that with chicks, especially young ones, is:
1. LESS IS MORE
2. LET THEM BE.
3. DON'T ARGUE
4. DON'T TAKE THINGS PERSONAL
5. DON'T REACT EMOTIONALLY (this is linked with number 4)...
Here you can see the pure cruelty of the female species on full display:
If we reversed the gender, in that the men are asked to rate a female virgin, would they deem her "THE WORST IN BED" or "SHE'S THE WORST" verbally, straight to her face like in the video? No, I don't think so. But somehow...
Simply this.
After so much tears and pain, I've come to the exact same conclusion.
"Holding frame" itself is all about the ability to WALK AWAY (and REALLY MEAN IT) from a bad deal, be it woman or a business, no matter how GOOD / STUNNING they were at the beginning.
Actually women, especially...
Agree 100%. A woman telling you she's single while still having a boyfriend is a big fat azz redflag.
Such a chick would be good to fvck (she's obviously interested in you anyway), but bad to wed or get into LTR with.
Let's be honest: Nowadays it takes real attraction to make a woman wants to go out and see you, because that means she's gonna have to go through that sh!tloads of works (makeup, hair do, picking outfit...etc), so unless her IL in you is high enough, she wouldn't bother to give you her time...
The only and most simple psychology here is that:
Women, as stated correctly by @Michael Chief , are living an abundant life when it comes to dating prospects. Their smartphones, at any give time, are having at least dozenz, if not hundreds, of unread messages/texts/pms by thirsty dudes...
I don't get it. You would just pump and dump them anyway (let's not BS ourselves here: It's not like you're going to wed any of them soon), who gives a fvck they had a boyfriend or not?
Context:
1. Last Friday, I forgot a date that I kind of discussed with this chick (not fixed yet, we were talking on the phone, and just discussing that we gonna meet this Friday), so the next day (Saturday), she got mad, started to complain how I didn't miss her and never initiated text.
2...
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