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So you're saying to set that boundary from the start then? Sometimes people bring up their exes but it can sometimes be used in the positive as in if she mentions how much better it is with you than a former lover but I agree that reaching out in any way from my experience is a litmus test for...

I have dealt with a similar experience to yours in my past year and yes, you're correct, always go with your gut even if you feel some doubt. It's always better to be the one doing the dumping than getting dumped but it is what it is. Now you have that failure and you can apply it to future...

You might be my friend but the best response is to stop trying to call and leave it be. If she wants to interact with you she'll find a way and that's the only way you want.

Been having sex with my ex while she is on the rocks with her rebound bf. She only dated him for 13 days before she hit me up after I kept not responding to her texts. She tried to play the whole "he knows we're not together anymore so I'm not cheating on him" bit. But little does she know...

If it's on again/off again it's not a relationship. I often ask my AFC friends about their on again/off again relationships and how long they consider themselves to have been dating the person. They'll tell me how long they've been going back and forth but then tell me the number of months they...

Refer to the update. I actually did get her number last night with the exact technique. Now I am binding my time before texting her wonder what my opener should be and how quickly I should schedule something with her.

Any recommendations on text game or threads anyone can link would be great! I'll use search function.

Update: Finally saw her again I was walking into the grocery store. Made my approach, small talked her about her weekend and week. I then asked if she'd still be up for a run. She said yes, and to just let her know. That's when I number closed and said "Well since I have my phone on me this...

Okay, one last update unless I break no contact (which is not gonna happen). She just texted me "so you're just gonna ignore me now, okay cool". Again, this is a girl that broke up with me, said she didn't feel in love with me anymore, lied to me in the preceding weeks about her rebound being...

Yet another update: So after the text about the account still being up and me being able to use it, 4 hours go by and she sends me the new password. Then 30 minutes go by and she says something to the affect of "I doubt you'll respond or use it but it's there if you want to". How do I set this...

Update: She contacted me again. This time to tell me that her card was charged so I could continue to use the service till the end of the month. I have held out. Really don't even have the urge to make any contact or break no contact again like I did by sending the email address after I...

I feel like I might've still potrayed that a bit with only responding with the email address and nothing else after hours of not and her even trying to contact me but I guess that might just be a cope. I'll keep y'all updated on if she contacts me and back and if I feel the urge to contact her...

To give a better understanding of why I broke no contact to send the email address: I don't love this girl. I miss the fun and kinky sex but I don't love her. I think I got worried if I said nothing then she'd think I never wanted her to contact me and I am trying to play my cards right for the...

Saw she logged out of the account so to just troll her I sent her the email address and only that she said "i figured it out thank you". Ah well, shouldn't have broke no contact. Kick myself.

I figured, I was really close to just texting her the account info but then I said, you know just ask SS before you make a move. She has to know the info, no other reason to contact me beyond trying to initiate confrontation.

Nah, if anything the only thing I miss is the kinky and wild sex we had. I was just wondering if I should just text the account info but I am pretty certain she has it and if not has the ability to obtain it. She was the one who originally set up the account and texted the information to me. The...

Been no contact with her for little over a week. She texts me this last night, I don't reply, and then she follows up with "Hello?". After an hour she tries to call me and I don't pick up. She gave me with account information originally and I feel there's almost a 0% chance she has forgotten it...

Been no contact with her for little over a week. She texts me this last night, I don't reply, and then she follows up with "Hello?". After an hour she tries to call me and I don't pick up. She gave me with account information originally and I feel there's almost a 0% chance she has forgotten...

I don't think she was telling him I was gay. I think she was probably telling him that I was a bad boyfriend that made her feel unloved and this guy was waiting his turn on the bench.

My sis My sister is 33 and has nearly gone completely gray. I'd stay far away from nurses beyond anything but a quick lay which you're right, most EMTs, doctors, and firefighters get. But even of a few of them get trapped into the marriage.