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    The Mask Lie

    I'm acting intentionally like you. Is insulting? Is nice? Your father being physically present does not represent a necessary emotional relationship. Think about it. About improving yourself, what's the problem? If you have a behavior that is not doing well for yourself, or for others, and you...
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    Do You Wear A Mask?

    @Spaz, there is no arguing. For him, that thought became religious. It is the same as fighting with God. There is no science, only faith.
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    The Mask Lie

    I realize that you have father problems (apparently his absence) and you need to reaffirm your masculinity. You doesn't have to be arrogant. I suggest seeking to improve yourself, with your inner demons, before seeking success with women, which it is clear that you do not have. Humility and a...
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    Totally humiliated by family when gf was around

    Eis que encontro um companheiro tupiniquim por aqui.
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    The Mask Lie

    With all due respect, I think you should take care of your life / those you love and stop this disservice, where you propagate shallow, childish, conspiratorial and almost paranoid arguments. Have a minimum of empathy with those who have lost loved ones or, if you can, argue scientifically...
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    Do You Wear A Mask?

    Discussing the applicability of the mask is the same as discussing the shape of the earth. The potency of the pathology is related to the viral load absorbed by the body. It is already scientific consensus. One thing is opinion, another is fact. Science doesn't care what you think. Maybe it's...
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    A plate

    You are already playing. I believe that you have also developed some affection for her, otherwise, you would not spend energy creating a post about something so simple. Do not take things so seriously. Follow your will. Every pressure creates a back pressure. Just don't forget the mask and a...
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    You Can't Force Someone to Like You

    Whoever has such a speech is the one who needs help. Be more humble.
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    Letting other girls down/LJBF?

    This. Ignoring is the best way to extinguish a behavior. The trend is a rise in insistence, then a total decline.
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    Worst Dating Advice

    "So what if she's a single mother? You will learn to love her son as your own"
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    How to spot or test for BPD woman?

    BPD resources from my friend Jeremy: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16H8NSn7SQebt7PrkICdNif_10d0ORAHBomQc1BcNwJE/edit?usp=sharing
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    Update: ex didn't reply.

    Gentlemen, this individual's behavior has all the traits of a paranoid outbreak. Do not waste time.
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    Did i play this right

    You did great. She said no. You don't have to convince someone to be with you. Meet other women or, as our comrades say: next.
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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    You are seeing things ontological, me, epistemological. But, using the hook: trying not to desire is already desire. We "control" our desires only after we put in our conscious the whys. Sorry for my English. Thank you for your time. Adieu.
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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    I disagree. Desiring is sine qua non of human existence, from the physiological to the psychological level. It is the way of having contact with the Other. We must understand the roots of desire, whether it comes from a search for genuine pleasure or a need to fill a personal void (which will...
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    Falling in love with the woman I've been seeing

    In a technical view: We are Void. We want what we don't have and, when we have it, we don't want it anymore. The effort for this pseudo-fulfillment is what makes us want, love, fill, catch fire. If you give what the Other wants, right away, you kill the desire.
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    See, the real problem with OLD is that you HAVE to date down

    Since english is not my mother language, I spent a lot of time wondering "Why extinguish old people? What the problem with them? Bad guys".
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    What should i do??

    "so i know i am not in one it is and other blue pill stuff...but i like her though..." Wake up. Don't lie to yourself. You created an account on a internet forum just to ask something about her. You lost your frame. Vanish. If she reachs you, be clear about your sexual desire and set a date...
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    How do you withdraw attantion?

    When you share your attention with other things, interaction with such a woman becomes just a moment of your day. If you're thinking about it so much, your castle has already been taken. Get away emotionally and come back seeing from another place.
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