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Yep. Multiple members have given him detailed instructions on how to not suck at life. He should be grateful they aren't charging him. Yet every post he makes is to tell us that he basically will continue what he's been doing. The last few posts he made with the rationalizations of fat guys...

No matter how much good advice people on this forum give him, Biggoal will continue to make excuses for himself to take the easy way out and do nothing to change his station in life. Look at how he rationalizes in the last few posts he made. This is someone with no drive and no ambition. I won't...

Ignore. Interesting timing as I also had an ex reach out to me in a voicemail (I didn't pick up) where she was crying the whole time. I'm going to ignore. I'm at a point in my life where I am able to remember the bad parts clearly instead of romanticizing the good parts. It's a new day. Ignore...

I've been experimenting a lot in recent years. I find it depends on the crowd and where I'm going. Black shirt with Khakis usually look best on me, but sometimes a white collared shirt with blue jeans turns heads if I'm in shape. Summer time I'm pretty much naked because I get too hot. So it's...

I don't know how things are in Brazil, but here in the U.S., I've had friends who called the cops and they themselves got arrested even though it was clear the woman did all the harassing. Be careful about getting law enforcement involved.

Not everyone is 122lbs at 5'9 like you, bro (not even girls). 5'8-5'11 at 180 is pretty normal depending on density, muscle mass, etc.

You've been hiding your medical powers from us this whole time.

Definitely. The easiest are the ones who straight up on 1st message say something like "you probably hear this all the time but...nice abs." And then it just becomes a game of just making sure you don't biggoal it out the window.

Last time I was on Bumble (1-2 years ago), all the women in my area were HB8/9, white, and all 5'9-6'0. At first I thought the algorithm was trolling me. I'm not talking about 1 or 2, I'm talking about nonstop 20-30 of these. None with kids though. I was also in NY btw.

I'm forgetting so much that I learned over the years. It's use it or lose it. Nowadays I remember sh1t like "protocol for detoxing someone off heroin." I will also add that going too low in body fat likewise has a negative effect on libido. You need BOTH testosterone AND estrogen to get it up...

You do not lack empathy. Based on some of the posts I've read from you (even before I decided to join SS), you are thoughtful, rational, and fair. In my opinion, one cannot be thoughtful or fair if there is a complete absence of empathy. And that's starting to be sociopath territory. I think you...

With your tests, you are within what is considered the mid-normal range for testosterone. Not high, but still considered "normal." At 16% body fat, it is not awful but you might find that once you get down to around 12% (approximately) or less body fat, your libido and natural testosterone...

This is subjective and I don't mean to be rude but I think the woman next to her crowning her looks better. :zip:

This is very true. And ageism still falls under "lookisms" but is not looked down upon as much as racism and the like. I'll never forget back when I was doing clinical rotations and one of my patients was in her 90s but looked 60ish due to a healthy lifestyle and genetics. My preceptor at the...

Can you explain more in detail how you did that or what circumstances surrounded that? Usually with my romps, the woman will finish after minimum 20 min and I personally will finish anywhere between 30min to 1.5 hrs (I blame masturbation for the longer end of that, but 30-45 min is more the...

Women certainly don't handle rejection as well as men do. Very recently, I rejected a woman softly and she ended up trying to character assassinate me. But I had my reasons for rejecting her and I left room for her to save face. Still started spreading lies about me. I'm with you on the double...

Like FairShake, I'm also an RN. I also have a previous degree in Social Work so I used to be a social worker as well. As an RN I worked in addiction medicine getting people off of substances such as heroin, benzodiazepines, alcohol, etc. On my free time I do volunteer work and I do some personal...

1) Self-Sabotage 2) Always either stuck in an extremely long LTR or unable to transition from FWB to a LTR. My problems are currently self-sabotage and always constant fear that I'm being used solely for purposes of sex. What brought me to SS in the first place was a bad case of One-itis and an...

I think I'm operating from too small of a sample space because the one I know also beats out most women in general when it comes to personality. Yoga just happens to be a big part of her life. But she's probably a rarity anyway.

You are mistaken. It depends on the woman. The one I'm crushing on (oh god I hope she doesn't read this forum) has been religiously into yoga for over a decade (she is advanced) and is of the highest caliber woman I've ever known. As in intelligent, has a great career, doesn't have crazy psych...