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    Did I handle this correctly?

    I was leaving for a week for my internship in UK, the next day. So I couldn't take initiative. Honestly, I am not sure but I am gonna let this be as it is, I am dating others and don't want to waste time when she specifically said she is dating. I am cool with dating many but I don't go about...
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    Did I handle this correctly?

    bump.
  3. J

    Did I handle this correctly?

    I met a girl a month ago, brief encounter, we hit off, exchanged numbers. We had a few conversations on text, mostly initiated by her, like her birthday was coming up and she contacted me, trying to make me ask her about it, especially the date and her plans etc, I kept the conversation short...
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    It's completely normal to catch feelings even if it's not mentioned here much but all I can say is remember your worth, you deserve a lot more than someone who treats you as an option. Your time is limited, the time you expend on her is never gonna come back, keep that in mind. Other than that...
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    I am not really sure what you meant to ask but I just want to say that I have always had decent luck with women and have been quite strong to cut contact and never look back in such cases, this was just one of those instances when you just connect with someone. Never really experienced this so...
  6. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Haha, I think I am gonna stick with what really happened, no point in trying to make myself feel better by lying.
  7. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Just a peck on the lips, probably lasted a couple of secs. She seemed into it, maybe next time it can go further.
  8. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Done, followed exactly. Didn't have sex but I will probably see her again and will see how it goes. Thanks.
  9. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Haha, thanks for that theory. Anyway, I went out on a date, went pretty well and I have a few lined up for the coming week. Being a geek who looks pretty fine too works wonders. Now I am back on the roller coaster which only goes up mate.
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Well, I am not advocating for my weakness at all. Replies from all of you makes me realise what the f**k I did. Thing is, under academic pressure (I am a geek in one of top unis in the world) and everything, it messed with me. But I have my internship sorted out for summer, have a date today and...
  11. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Come on, there always comes a woman who makes you weak, I am sure many have gone through this but I see your point and yes, I have learned and gonna do better next time.
  12. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Understood, won't happen again.
  13. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Haha, I see what you are saying and that's exactly what I am gonna do. Such things happen and sometimes are out of control, but I don't have any excuse for it. I am gonna fix this.
  14. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Well, time for me to cut this orbit completely now. Thanks.
  15. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    I have recently just started engaging actively with my rotation because earlier I didn't feel like it. And I do accept that it's a problem because honestly, I hate seeing myself this way as I have always been the chill one. Thanks for your input, I will make sure that this state meets its end now.
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Okay, guys, I am here to post an update about how I have been dealing with this encounter. It has been more than a month since no-contact, neither did I msg nor did she msg me. I have to admit, it has been quite difficult for to come upto the terms of how random she treated me. Over the past...
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    I understand what you are saying and I agree. Don't know what came over me and let her have control, anyway I am gonna follow no-contact and find someone else. Thanks.
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    I agree with you completely, I accept my mistakes. To be clear, I am not hoping for her to come back, I was just a little taken aback by this. I am disappointed in myself as I have been very good at handling such incidents, exactly the way you have mentioned yet I messed this one up. Number...
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    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Hi, I am a 22 yr old college student and a couple of months ago I met a girl online and we really hit off. I thought this was someone I would like to know better. We met a few times, at no point it felt that any of us had to drag the conversation, we were explicit with our liking for each other...
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