I appreciate the the advice guys.
- I don't believe it's a given I could have slept with her within 3-4 dates, not every girl is quick to do that. However, I do appreciate had I approached it differently it could have very well happened. I've met girls, who i've done things very quiclly with...
I don't think there was another guy then, i think it's:
- she arrived to a new city/country less and within a month that's too quick to start something
- I did the things you've said above and that's put her off
There will be another guy now, or maybe more than one as i believe she'd of wrote...
She could think, well it's clear he thinks this is uncomfortable too, so let's not bother.
However, if i talked normal without intense it could be something to begin again? This is where I'm lost, drawing the line between opening inocently and waiting for her to contact me
My concern is that maybe she does want to be in contact but now things are awkward, not comfortable.
is there not an argument for me to reach out and make it a comfortable setting? or is keeping my distance really the best approach
Yes, I understand that - she did mention when she said she didn't miss me, that she didn't have time & by that - it's because we spoke. The mystery disappeared and i wasnt a challenge for her.
Like i said, usually I'm very distant from women and they chase me but that's because I'm not really...
I get that, but If i want another shot at it? I'm best leaving her alone or actually asking her out and taking it from there?
I Believe I was too accessible, if I get a date and we have fun and then distance myself a bit this time around, it could work
After my rationalising she wrote although right now i don't see you as something more, i continue to appreciate who you are and were and i'd like to keep the contact.
'after this we are going to do things that you say, let's go slower and see what happens, i would like that we take our time...
So you are saying I'm totally out of the game with this one? No recovery? I know i've made mistakes & I agree with what you are saying but this girl did at one point have a high level of interest in me as told by her willingness to be affectionate in moments.
She has said, that this situation...
Hi all - I need some advice!
I'm 30 & I met an amazing woman (26) who moved to my home town just over a month ago. We started speaking via FB before she arrived, everyday. She would ask me many questions about me & she seemed very interested.
Two weeks after she arrived here & she got a job...
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