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That’s the ideal scenario for getting laid. Unless all the servers are old or men. But if you hate your job it will send some vibes that may reduce your chances. Also, depends what kind of woman you want. Other workaholic women (lawyers) are pretty good about working around a busy schedule.

Only thing I can say is be warned: once you date feminine foreign women, American girls plummet in relative attractiveness. You start noticing things. A little extra fat. Feminism. Entitled attitude. Completely divorced from reality. If I bring my foreign girlfriend a bag of healthy...

Final Update : Success About 2.5 months since breakup. Mostly NC with minimal texting. I have reached No Contact Nirvana. This is defined as the state at which you realize under no circumstances would you trade your current situation to return to the ex that dumped you. How did I get here...

The problem is a scarcity mentality. It creeps up on the best of us when we game someone who is at the top of our SMV range. Deep down you are stressing about her because you are afraid she is the ONE. However, the girl you are thinking about (and who may very well be getting savagely pounded...

Update: Day 13 NC, 70 days since breakup My post above was at 2 months NC, then I caved and contacted her. Since then it's been 13 days. So I went NC for a solid two months, she contacted me a few times during that period. In the mean time, I started seeing other women. I even sat down and...

Thanks. That's the truth. She was a good girl and I ****ed it up. But there are a millions of them and now I know what to work on (avoid video games like the plague, keep in shape, and focus on my business), so when I meet an even better girl, I wont make the same mistakes. That hard learned...

Very good point. Starting to feel like breaking n/c was a mistake.

Day 56, any opinions and advice are appreciated (long post) Background, Was in a relationship with a much younger and attractive lady. When I met her I was in shape and spinning plates. Swept her off her feet. Probably the best relationship I have ever had. She pushed me to become a better...

Also never stop improving yourself. Beta backsliding gets so many guys. If you are getting better all the time, she will feel the challenge of keeping you. Other women will want you. She will sense that, even moreso if you act like you don't even notice. Unlike women, men can improve SMV...

This. What guy has ever written a tender novel over SMS to reject someone? You just stop calling. She wrote it herself. Also enjoyed the irony that at the end she made fun of his height. Because he can totally control that.

I used to write thoughtful long winded opening messages. The response rate does go up but I don't believe it increases attraction at all. You have to screen for interest. My last 2 LTRs started with "Hey there" and a cut and paste "So you seem cool. What sort of trouble are you into this...