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    What is the first step?

    What martial art would you suggest?
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    Physical Expectations in LTRs

    This is interesting, first off, i am not a feminist. I am just interest in the dynamic. Say If you have a much higher status amd wealth, providing her with access to material gains, opportunities, hey, even protection etc, i can see how it would work. But if they held a job on par to yours, why...
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    What is the first step?

    You guys made some good points, i should be happy from within rather then from woman which probably is the issue. Certainly could do with a upgrade with everything else in my life, like a more prestigious job, a nicer place to live in, a more knowledge mind, even some more and better friends...
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    What is the first step?

    I am tempted to do a bootcamp, in fact i am thinking of investing in the 7-day live-in one, just not sure if it will help that much given my current lack of status.
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    What is the first step?

    Forgive my ignorance, what does that mean in practices? Do I like signing up online dating, talk and flirt to any girl i see?
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    What is the first step?

    Since my last post I have committed to no contact with girl X who friendzoned me I thought I was ok being a friend, obviously not, better late then ever i guess... But enough of talking of the past, I know I need to move forward! I realize I invested far too much in her in the past few years...
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    No, I am still going to so say goodbye, just had to do it delicately that's all.
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    Man, i so wish I said goodbye to her months/years ago! things have got far more complicated now.
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    Thank you! I am thinking it goes beyond on this girl of course, so a girl need to show me she is worth the time i spent with her.. does that mean like if she dont reply my messages for days i wont bother with her, if she flakes, i next her, if she start giving attitude during a date, i call her...
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    I did this before, i kept ignoring her, she threatened to come to my workplace lol Anyway, forgive my ignorance.. But what does make her WORK for it means? like she has to make the plans? She has to buy my dinner?
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    I thought i was ok being just friends (being nice lol) but continue flirt with her as i have a couple of fb, obv not. Will slowly back out of this, start with the usual no initialing text, make myself scarces, no need for drama.
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    Yeah i see what you guys are saying, sometimes it takes another person to point out the obvious.
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    Being the backup guy sucks!

    Known this girl for a few years, we have always hang out, during this period, we have had many days out, weekends away etc, we have not slept together, got close once or twice but did not happened, I have also been friendzoned, had oneitis if i am being honest, she also dated other guys etc. So...
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