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Not to sound like a prude, but the fact that someone has to ask how many women does it take to show an "abundance mindset" shows that person cares about what others think to an unhealthy degree......which is the total opposite of an abundance mindset.

Wayyyyyy to outcome dependent with these women. And youre playing games by canceling because you think she is going to cancel? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. This chick is going to flake on you again btw. Just by reading your post OP I can tell that you are still young and immature. Be...

I totally get it. Fvcking women can and will at some point become a bore and you will want more out of the interaction. When dating a higher quality woman, you will eliminate most of the garbage that comes attached to the low hanging fruit. Higher quality women are career minded. So they have...

Outside of Hinge and maybe Bumble, all the chicks on OLD, regardless of what they say, are hoes. And even most of the ones on Hinge and Bumble are hoes also. At 47 you should be able to match with chicks down to 30 yrs old if you have good pics, decent text game and very good in person game...

Yep. Ex gf who is probably BPD. And then there was the psychologist who should be seeing a shrink. Who ironically messaged me 2 days ago out of the blue. All the ones that have some mental issues are prime in the sack. Recreational use/fvck and toss only. But its hard to do that because they...

"If you aint first, you're last"- Ricky Bobby

I think the key to doing well in smaller areas is being one of the better options. Regardless of age. I look at dating younger women in this perspective: Imagine you have 40k to spend on a vehicle. At that amount of money your opportunities are not endless. There is going to be some give and...

She also seems to be very avoidant, thus after they meet and hang out she starts thinking about things and pulls away. If that is the case, it could be a constistently frustrating issue. I think OP should just mimic her behavior. If she backs away, he backs away. Have fun when they get together...

I get it. But I guess I see things differently with the very toxic women (albeit just a small amount) who are exes. I look at things as such: why go back to something that will fail when there are sooo many better dating options out there. And let's be honest......these toxic women (BPD...

@soulforge why did you swipe right on her to begin with? Just curious

If by "hot babes" you mean section 8 housing women with a belly and cottage cheese thighs, maybe. I sure dont see any hot babes going after men who live in their parents basement drinking beer and eating cheetos all day. Its all about what you want to attract. If you want trailer trash, does...

Yes! As @BackInTheGame78 often says, "for recreational purposes only"!

In a short answer- yes it does. You will get more attention driving a new A6 or A8.......or any other newer sports related/luxury car. It may widen your horizon in terms of interested women, but........... If a chick is interested in me, I could drive a moped and she would still want to see...

Throw in a few drinks and a chick thats been on a dry spell and ready to have fun........look out! I see a lot of threads on here from dudes that wonder what happened to a chick they went out with, or smashed once (maybe twice) and then she disappears. I think this is the case a lot of times...

As always, spot on. Excellent post.

You're 100% right. As "normal" and secure attachment people, we don't deal with the avoidants/mentally ill/severely depressed/severely introverted people well because WE DONT UNDERSTAND IT. And vise versa, they don't understand us. They understand that we function more normally. They definitely...

You already said you don't see her enough to "truly know her". Why would you stick around with someone who has a mental illness? You don't even know to what degree it is. Bi polar? BPD? Scitzophrena? Are you that desperate to just have a female around? I'd really like to hear your answers to...

This is the most accurate definition of a dismissive or fearful avoidant. I think they really want to be close to someone......they crave it. But in the end, their avoidant WILL take over and they are impossible to deal with. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Flight or fight mode for literally...

Well, its nearly 9 years since my original post and I am happy to say that I still use this venue and the Algorithm still works. There have been a few decently long relationships in the last 9 years but in terms of meeting women, it doesnt change. Ive added a few new spots to the venue list but...

There are many women out there who are secure attachment styles. They understand the dynamics of a healthy relationship. I have dated the dismissive avoidants. Fearful avoidants. IMO they are wayyyy worse to deal with than anxious attachments. If you have a lot of options in the dating world...