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    How to kill remaining/false hope completely?

    Long story short - a girl chose to stay with her boyfriend instead of choosing me. Says she still thinks about me bla bla bla.. Despite not at all wanting it, I STILL hold a small amount of hope that she will change her mind / message me etc, even thought logically I know it's done. Still have...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    Really appreciate all your insight, Asmodeus. What you have said has been accurate so far. However, she didn't really 'blame' me as much as it is the truth. She did try and she did care more. She had a genuine attempt. Pills. Stomach pumped. Someone else also confirmed it happened. Although...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    I have tried to be fair with my description and to give her the benefit of the doubt. Totally agree with you about the suicide thing though. But this girl did actually attempt it a year or two ago, this I know to be true. Not sure if that makes it any worse or not. She was young. Hope I've had...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    Isn't that all women to some extent, especially young attractive ones who are used to getting there way? Isn't what people are describing to some extent the modern spoilt brat who happens to be beautiful, too? Just waiting for the better option.... Don't get me wrong, I'm not involved with her...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    You guys sure have diagnosed her quickly and pretty accurately. Guess that's down to experience with this type of girl, of which I don't really have any yet. I never thought for one minute that she could be this dangerous, she seemed so sweet. If you don't mind me asking, what happened during...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    She's still being persistent despite me backing off. She's saying she only said her mother had passed away because she can't stand her and that she meant she may as well be dead to her (obsessively manipulating and controlling her life to the point she had to run away). She quit the job after...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    I think you are absolutely right about the lying. I had no idea an 18/19 year old could be so calculating and purposely manipulative. How did she learn these things? The last time I saw her, she had a bruise on her cheek and said her ex cam round and hit her. Not even sure whether to believe...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    Alright, reading all of that, I am now seriously reconsidering this. I admit there have been some warning signs that I have chosen to push aside (she mentioned suicide in passing again, although I don't think she's serious in any way) as I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I just...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    I did a bit of research and I can understand why you might say that but remember this girl is young and out here on her own. I can see why she might be doing this stuff out of loneliness etc. The reason for the name change is that she didn't want to be associated with her parents and wanted a...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    I've slept with her. I don't beleive her ex is an issue.
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    Thanks for your thoughts. Guys, she is 18 years old. I'm of the opinion that she is just a little immature and is currently in a tough situation. Her parents moved her around a lot and were too controlling. We are both in a foreign country. Maybe once she gets some stability and order in her...
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    Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

    This girl walked into the small company I work for a coupe of week ago, looking for a position. She got an admin job, but then quit four days later. She's incredibly attractive, seems rebellious, young (around 18) and she is displaying a LOT of interest in me (I'm 23). We have been talking...
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