This girl walked into the small company I work for a coupe of week ago, looking for a position. She got an admin job, but then quit four days later.
She's incredibly attractive, seems rebellious, young (around 18) and she is displaying a LOT of interest in me (I'm 23). We have been talking quite a lot and she is obviously very intelligent but seems a little troubled.
She says she has run away from home, and that her parents are awful people. She told me almost straight away that her mother was dead. Later, I found out that this was not true and that her mother is just very controlling and often manic, controlling every aspect of her life still, was abusive growing up, and that she hates her. Her parents obviously play a big part in her life. She said her Dad's an older, rich business man who is more distant. She's now trying to find acting/modelling jobs in the city.
She will call me and make me feel sympathy for her; eg. she's doing a degrading job to pay the bills, she's lost her keys and is locked out and needs help, she's very upset and needs to talk, she's lonely living on her own at night and needs me to come round. Very very seductive.
She often blocks me on whatever form of communication we are using, then unblocks me later. Conversations are usually quite intense and she gets angry quite easily - bear in mind I barely know her. She often makes me feel cowardly for not doing it sooner, bringing up other guys too.
Sometimes I feel I'm being slightly manipulated by this.
She told me she had tried to commit suicide at 16/17.
I heard her on the phone to her ex the other day and she told him to go die and then blocked him. Said he was an *******.
After she quit the job, she would still turn up to the office after work, unannounced, to catch me coming out. It's almost a bit stalky and she admits this, laughing. It also turns out that the name she is using is not her real name.
I feel guilty as I currently have a girlfriend of a couple of months but I am considering splitting up with her to pursue things with this new girl. She's proposing a friends with benefits situation with me. She seems really exciting and intoxicating but I'm not sure about her. Also living in poor conditions and I want to help her out by letting her stay at mine until she sorts her life out. I feel like she's just going through a rough patch at the moment.
Your thoughts please?
TLDR - Really hot, interesting, young yet troubled girl came into my company looking for job, quit 4 days later, has pursued me aggressively despite me having a girlfriend, blocks me to get an emotional reaction, has already told little lies and I am wondering whether to split up with my girlfriend to pursue things with her.
Thoughts?
She's incredibly attractive, seems rebellious, young (around 18) and she is displaying a LOT of interest in me (I'm 23). We have been talking quite a lot and she is obviously very intelligent but seems a little troubled.
She says she has run away from home, and that her parents are awful people. She told me almost straight away that her mother was dead. Later, I found out that this was not true and that her mother is just very controlling and often manic, controlling every aspect of her life still, was abusive growing up, and that she hates her. Her parents obviously play a big part in her life. She said her Dad's an older, rich business man who is more distant. She's now trying to find acting/modelling jobs in the city.
She will call me and make me feel sympathy for her; eg. she's doing a degrading job to pay the bills, she's lost her keys and is locked out and needs help, she's very upset and needs to talk, she's lonely living on her own at night and needs me to come round. Very very seductive.
She often blocks me on whatever form of communication we are using, then unblocks me later. Conversations are usually quite intense and she gets angry quite easily - bear in mind I barely know her. She often makes me feel cowardly for not doing it sooner, bringing up other guys too.
Sometimes I feel I'm being slightly manipulated by this.
She told me she had tried to commit suicide at 16/17.
I heard her on the phone to her ex the other day and she told him to go die and then blocked him. Said he was an *******.
After she quit the job, she would still turn up to the office after work, unannounced, to catch me coming out. It's almost a bit stalky and she admits this, laughing. It also turns out that the name she is using is not her real name.
I feel guilty as I currently have a girlfriend of a couple of months but I am considering splitting up with her to pursue things with this new girl. She's proposing a friends with benefits situation with me. She seems really exciting and intoxicating but I'm not sure about her. Also living in poor conditions and I want to help her out by letting her stay at mine until she sorts her life out. I feel like she's just going through a rough patch at the moment.
Your thoughts please?
TLDR - Really hot, interesting, young yet troubled girl came into my company looking for job, quit 4 days later, has pursued me aggressively despite me having a girlfriend, blocks me to get an emotional reaction, has already told little lies and I am wondering whether to split up with my girlfriend to pursue things with her.
Thoughts?
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