There are high functioning BPDs and low function BPDs
Actually she isn't in school
Has been out of college for a year
Like I said
She fits many of these traits
I read other people's stories and they are similar to mine
She called herself crazy
All I asked for help and what others think
Keep...
Actually I had like 4 options when I first started talking to this girl
Read about BPD and than maybe you would understand something
The girl told me she was in a psych ward
Everything else matches it
Lol at 11000 messages
It's always the guys that spend the most time on here that are the...
I don't think it's that she wanted to just have sex
She literally was spending every day with me
I asked her if this is a FWB thing and she said she doesn't do that
I have done research and I'm defiantly co dependent
I know for a fact she loved me because she did things for me that showed me she cared
Honestly I thought about leaving a couple times
I even asked her did she lose feelings for me
If there is any one else
Is she happy for me
She always...
In the beginning,we would have sex very often
I understand that was probably during the idealization phase
She would do anything sexual during this time
As time went on
She told me so no longer wanted to do this or that and always gave me excuses
I think a big give away is how the stepdad told...
How is it possible for her to move on like that on the unless she emotionally detached yourself way before she tried breaking up with me
Her mom's second husband left her after being together for 18 years
He told me I would have a hard life with them and to really think about if I really want...
Little by little
I started pulling out more information from her
That a part of her doesn't she us together anymore
She also told me in the beginning I was driving her to classes to get over her ex before me
Around when she asked for the break, she told me she still has dreams about her ex I...
She complained that I won't let her spend time with her friends
I had no problem about this
In the beginning of the relationship
I was hanging out with a old friend of mine that was a girl and she told me that's not right
So from then on I didn't hang out with friends that are girls
She...
I understand this is a long post but I would really appreciate if someone took some time to help
me out
I can't believe what I went through
Would be awesome gain some insight from people with a similar experience
Anyways
Here is a big chunk of our history
We started off as co workers in...
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