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My girlfriend of 6 months is going out of town for her sister's bachelorette party in a couple weeks. She is the maid of honor. When we discussed the bachelorette party a month ago, she told me that there wouldn't be any male strippers. Last night we went out to the bars and she casually...

So I told her, in the nicest way I could. I told her we should start going to the gym more and she took the hint pretty quickly. Apparently her mom's been telling her she's gaining weight too. She's been crying for a while and I've never felt more guilty in my life

I started dating a girl about 6 months ago. She is awesome in almost every way imaginable. She's extremely caring, supportive, intelligent, and fun. I really do envision a future with this girl, but something has started to bother me and I'm not sure how to go about fixing it. When I met her she...

and so this continues on. the day after blowing him off at the bars and not texting him, she apologized the next morning. he asked for my advice and I said he shouldn't respond, which he took. but then the girl snapchatted him a picture later in the day asking if he was mad at her, so he "felt...

update: went AFC and said I wouldn't be around anymore if she has a tinder. She apologized for making one and said she would delete it immediately and invited me over

Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?

Nope. Crying

update: I spoke my piece yesterday and left it alone. Later that night, we went out to the bars in my college town. He was dead set on going to a specific one because that girl told him she was going to be there. He's normally very social and outgoing, but he would not leave this girl's side for...

My friend has been asking for relationship advice from me lately with a girl he's been after for a while. Since I'm new here and just learning and have gone through similar things recently, I think it would be beneficial for both of us to have SS weigh in on what's up. He's known the girl...

See the thing is it's not "regular." It's so spur of the moment and random and I don't have much control if any over when it happens. It seems like it happens more on her terms than my terms. We talk via text more regularly than we hang out, something I very recently learned is not good from...

I'm developing serious oneitis for a HB7. Oneitis to the point where I don't make moves on other girls who are interested, where I cancel plans with my bros if hanging out with her is even an option. Pathetic stuff like stalking her FB, getting upset when she doesn't respond, etc. I need SS's...

Not necessarily. From your post it seems like you asked her out in a weak way. Give it a week without contacting her and try again. This time, have a specific date with a time and place in mind and ask her straight up. It doesn't matter what you have in mind, but anything is better than asking...

do not have the time = do not have the time FOR YOU I probably wouldn't have even replied because by telling her "let me know when YOU are available," you've become too available yourself. this essentially tells her that you're available whenever, don't have a busy and exciting life, you're...

I went with option 1. Even for the couple weeks before the dance (it was a formal for my fraternity), I could feel that something was amiss. She flaked on me twice in one night after making plans to hang out, then flaked two nights in a row the following week without the slightest sign of...

Update: contacted via trivia crack chat this morning. "You're so nice and a great guy but I need my space right now" wtf, NEXT

A girl I was interested in texted me on my birthday saying "happy birthday." I texted her back a long paragraph about how happy it made me feel to wake up to her happy birthday text, how glad I was she was in my life, etc. Then I APOLOGIZED for taking an hour to respond. This all seemed like...

I agree with this response. Would she be feeling "judged or lessened" by Tom Brady? Hell no. She would agree to the second date immediately. Just say ok, no problem and if she doesn't reach out in the near future, NEXT. Don't drive yourself crazy, man, if she was interested she wouldn't be...

if anything you're only reinforcing OP's main point about reasoning based on emotion by making an argument about what salary someone deserves based off an arbitrary understanding of "true value." Notice how there are salary CAPS in most professional sports leagues, meaning that athletes are...

I've been burned with online dating before and learned the hard way. Take The411's advice, and move in for the number and meet as quickly as possible. The longer you continue talking to these women via email, text, or whatever, the more you risk a) the woman losing all interest completely or b)...