Ok cool thanks for your help...
Yeah she is a handful but like I said she has massive baggage and I know she will return one day to me maybe cos the life she had with me and her daughter had...
So what examples can you give on how to treat her if she does return and how should I be myself...
Hey ....
I posted yesterday about my bpd exgf..
Just want to know if there's anyway I can treat her different than I did and make it work or at least work out longer in anyway next time!??
Thanks
Is it possible to treat her different ??
I heard you can treat a BPD with bpd and they actually like it??
Because they seem to eat ppl Alive, and seems there are some ppl who have success with them in the long run
Ok I get it now , yeah I have been doing that but would ignoring her speed up the recycle process??
Would that make her value me more?
She would obviously try more dudes before coming back.
And how can I make things different so it will last longer next time??
but what if i did change myself? what if i can become someone to pull her in line? because thats what i will practice if i get another shot..
she knows she will not find anyone else who will take her in like i did..she has major baggage and she knows this..
I just want to know will she realise...
haha come on guys I know but like i said she didnt really bother me that much..
is it possible to be able to just not let her **** get to you?
how come sociopaths can do this? become immune to her games and bs?
I understand that its crazy to even think about this..I know what im up for i really do.
I have heard of some success stories but id have to change myself and the way i interact with her.
Anyone had any luck with this type of situatuaion or some luck?
Cheers for that...
Yeah crazy boy is right I know but I want to have another go...I think she just needs a strong man and she has daddy issues...
Everyone says i dont deserve her and she will prob have a fckn **** life by the looks of things and it makes me kinda upset cos deep down shes a...
should i send a goodbye text or anything so she doesnt think i hate her guts?
I understand its been a while now...but shes hoovers pretty hard when i send a goodbye text like i have then she tries to suck me back in by sob stories.
I know that creates panic in her? and ideas what to say? or...
Yeah a mess indeed....
Well she was relying on me alot like calling everyday then slowly decreased to once a week by me..
So how do I get her interest? Its hard for me not be nice i guess.. can i have some examples of what to do!! lol
Hey Im new here and I really like this site..wish I knew about it years ago!!! :woo:
Ok.....so I met a young female shes 19 and Im 30, and we are neighbours!!
She has a baby about 9mnths old and the "ex" was an ******* who left her when she fell pregnant (which is true by the way and also...
Hey Im new here and I really like this site..wish I knew about it years ago!!! :woo:
Ok.....so I met a young female shes 19 and Im 30, and we are neighbours!!
She has a baby about 9mnths old and the "ex" was an ******* who left her when she fell pregnant (which is true by the way and also...
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