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    Girl is lying about STDs

    I'm well aware of what herpes vs. hpv is, i know she has had HPV, I'm not too sure which strand she might have, usually in pap smears, 16 & 18 pop up which are the ones who have the probability of causing cancer. She wants to be sexual with me and I know it's not my place yet but if you're...
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    Girl is lying about STDs

    Started talking to a new girl...I recently heard from a few good sources that she contracted HPV last year from having unprotected sex while drunk ...I asked her about hpv in a way that made it seem that I didn't know the story and she denied having it, several times. She has never blatantly...
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    Saw my bpdex ...acted as if I didn't exist...do they really forget us?

    Christoff it's incredible the shrine they create to their lives and not just bpd. Any girl with issues create the craziest facade on social media. I guess keeping that shrine is self assurance that they were once loved or capable of that they deem as being normal. Those are my two cents
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    Saw my bpdex ...acted as if I didn't exist...do they really forget us?

    Mauser- depending on the severity of the relationship but I usually just delete everything until I'm over it. Why keep sh1t that's going to cause you pain? Delete move on and once you get over it., it won't matter anymore...reading on bpd/npd it seems to me that they, no matter how much they...
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    Saw my bpdex ...acted as if I didn't exist...do they really forget us?

    mauser- unfortunately I wasn't with a woman or had my nice car or job promotion to show passively show off at the bar :rolleyes: but I don't know....I'm obviously asking because to some degree it does bother me and as much BPD/NPD no contact things you read...at some core level i'd liek to...
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    Saw my bpdex ...acted as if I didn't exist...do they really forget us?

    Thanks dudes for your responses, I figured I'm out of sight out of mind and I'm just a distant memory, just made me feel weird. It's one thing to think about the relationship, it's. another to see her but it wasn't as bad as I thought.
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    Saw my bpdex ...acted as if I didn't exist...do they really forget us?

    Alright so I've gone no contact with my bpdex for about a year, within the year I've been with two women and I've processed the reasons why I stayed and the pain she caused me, I'm alot better and I'm not embarrassed to admit the toll the relationship took on me. Anyway, I went to a bar this...
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    Exgirlfriend is dating a guy who looks just like me

    Went out with a couple of friends last night and they started talking about my ex (I didn't bring anything up and I was the first to say "let's change the subject" ) They all mentioned that her new boyfriend looks exactly like me. They call him my twin, I find it a little odd. Anyone else...
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    Girl likes all my instagram photos, does that mean anything?

    Thanks for the input, I always wondered what it means when a girl likes your many of your photos it's either no big deal she might very well just like everyone else's photo or it might mean something. And with this girl, I'm not too sure I'd like to pursue anything with her, she's one of...
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    Girl likes all my instagram photos, does that mean anything?

    This happened to me a few months ago and I'd like to get a general opinion on the matter. Some girl who I have on instagram would like all my pictures, all! And one day her bf direct messages me and tells me to fvck off and delete his girl, the funny thing is I never paid attention to her...
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    Closure with BPD-ex

    Cerwin- I'm not sure that she may be too honest with the whole "10 orgasms straight & her new boy toy is leaps and bounds better than you" deal. Why? Well my bpd ex throughout the course of the relationship told me some DEEPLY personal and horrific things that she's gone through at the...
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    Closure with BPD-ex

    They don't give you closure because that would mean wholeheartedly admitting their flaws and their wrong doing. Something they're not capable of at all, they don't have the emotional maturity for that. In addition, it scares the sh1t out of them to look within and face their demons, they just...
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    Will my exbpd contact me after seeing me doing good?

    Guitar, I felt the same way when I first broke up, these women leave you feeling like a shadow of your former self. But in time you'll feel better trust me. I hate stupid quotes or saying but it gets better in time. Leprechaun, Truthfully, I don't want any revenge on her or any person but...
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    Will my exbpd contact me after seeing me doing good?

    Christoff, I think my bpd ex besides the fact that she is good looking, I won't deny that, and is narcissistic beyond belief. She hates/loves herself in a weird paradox. Anyway, her social media is always some sexual vulgar nonsense to attract and guy who would just wanna use her like a...
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    Borderline Personality Disorder Ex, need help.

    For the most part, my ex tried to "Hoover" me back in during the month we broke up. Ignored her like the plague. Never heard from her again. I mean I got out a year ago and I'm doing great, the only thing I can do tell you to do is to work with yourself in a safe way to stop you from dating...
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    What's a deal breaker/ red flag(s) for you?

    I'd have to agree, I'm, according to the personality test mentioned up above, an INFJ. Whatever fancy lingo that may be, I just don't like women who are too clingy or are extreme social butterflies. "C'mon lets go to my friends party ill introduce you to all my friends!" (Screams internally)...
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    What's a deal breaker/ red flag(s) for you?

    Interesting I see feminist pop up a lot on here Why? (Sheer curiosity) I've met a feminist once who was dead on just "men are horrible it's always men who commit X Y Z, which is totally the opposite of gender equality but that was just one person, so I can't generalize.
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    I can, but don't. Should I want to b@ng lots of girls?

    Truthfully, I think at a certain age you just knock that sh1t off. Don't get me wrong but I'm always going to love pu$$y it's the greatest thing. But do I sleep around? No. From my point of view, there are so many stds being transmitted that I rather not, or at least first find out by testing...
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    Will my exbpd contact me after seeing me doing good?

    Christoff, They truly are, I tried leaving a number of times but she would fake suicide or some crazy wild story to suck me in. I left her, I told her I know who she is and that she has major psych issues. I doubt she'll contact me after that because she cannot wear a mask with me any...
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    What's a deal breaker/ red flag(s) for you?

    Well I should of specified usually for the first few dates/ ""honeymoon phase"" For me- some crazy ass personal story, talking too much about ex, or overly sexual those are red flags for me.
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