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Cheers. Sorry to sound like a heartless wench. I'll post when I'm in a better state of mind and I'll seem even more relatable. But guys take note, this is what NC does to your exes. They do, think and say stupid stuff like I just posted. (I mean this to mean that you're getting to them! You...

It doesn't help that I haven't explained myself does it? I'm just not in a good headspace atm. Starting to post on day 7 rather than day 1 was a bad idea. I don't want him to come crawling back, I know I just said I did, but only because I'm on a down at the moment. I tried NC on here in...

We're on the same amount of days, let's help each other :up: My problems at the moment is that because he isn't a bad person I'm doubting my decisions to stay NC, so you're a lot stronger than I am if you're finding this easy. Just don't let it be your downfall like it is for me. So yeah...

Day 7! Definitely proud of myself for making it this far. Today is going to be a hard day. I was spinning four plates but after last night I'm down to two, after messing one up pretty badly and the other getting sh1tty at me because my team beat his in the football. This plus alcohol nearly...

Yo dudes, I return after months. I started the sixty day challenge in Jan, but unfortunately heard bad news about a family member so ran back to my ex for support, which means our relationship lasted another three months. I don't think I was doing no contact for the right reasons back then...

Deal :) I think it will help us both stay motivated, as well as prove interesting to be able to compare feelings, as well as possible reactions from our exes. Both of our exes definitely hold all the power (well did) I definitely got that from your post, as well as the fact that other people...

At least you're now starting to get some of your power back, which is always great. Thanks for replying to my post, definitely going to take your advice. I just finished work, and now I don't have anything to distract me, I'm beginning to feel a little bummed out. I got invited to a house...

I have a question for you all... how did you all handle day two? Every time we've gone to break up, I always feel absolutely great day one and by about 12pm day two I crack and contact him to work things out, giving him all the power to make all the decisions. At the moment I have so many...

I agree with this. I know I'm the newbie (at least I now have a post count of two, unlike a lot of people who register, say they're totally into NC and will be here regularly and are never seen again ;) ) but this is great advice. Yeah you broke NC, it sucks and you're hurting. The hardest...

Day two Hi all, Like a lot of people here, found this thread through Google, ready to try this sixty day challenge. Let's get something awkward out of the way: I'm a female, and I'm the dumper. The reason we broke up is because he lied about something really big, and kept this lie...