I know a lot of spineless rats that put on displays of bravado who do well with women, and a lot of quiet but genuinely tough and solid guys who don't.
Here's why: female love and loyalty towards men has always been based, essentially on dependence. Women still depend on men for their survival and safety of course, but on men collectively. They do not need any one of us individually (that is certainly their perception anyway). Nor do they...
I'm not saying men should never cold approach- rather that the natural female tendency to fear/distrust men she doesn't know is a big obstacle that has that has to be overcome. You have to convince the girl that you are not a threat to her before you can get anywhere else. Remember- women value...
Women are instinctively fearful (or at least, highly suspicious of the intentions) of strange men (ie men who aren't in their 'tribe.') This is why 'cold approaching' usually doesn't work.
Oh yeah, i forgot that any girl who doesn't look like a Wildebeest receives tons of male attention on dating sites. She's probably found someone 'better' and moved on.
So I was talking to this girl on POF a few weeks ago. We go to the same school, and it seemed like she was really into me. We hit it off, and we were supposed to meet in person last week, but when I texted her to make sure the meeting was still on, she told me she wasn't feeling well, and asked...
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