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"The right one" seems like extremely limited, scarcity-thinking. If one-girl-in-a-thousand would be a good match for you that you'd be attracted to, that means there are MORE THAN THREE MILLION on this earth who you could be with. I'm just saying that THE ONE is an idea basically...

OK. I'm ignoring it. I'm drunk on dopamine right now and really appreciate the arm's length perspective of you guys. Thanks. BeefNoJerky

Help!!!! She just texted me, the entire text says: I love you. WTF do I do?!?

Day 12 NC Challenge, Day #12 Though I haven't had any contact with her in 14 days, I'm on my 12th day of having accepted this challenge and it's been 4 days since she contacted me and I ignored her. First of all, thank you @Lotus Effect for being a no-bull**** guy and telling it like it...

Boy, did you get the right. I've been thinking about her to much since she sent the message. However, it's been the first time that I've felt even a little control over the situation or myself as it relates to her. Thanks for your help and encouragement. Day 10 NC Challenge, Day #10 Though I...

Hey there Lotus Effect, thanks for your words. I still find myself thinking about her today, but it was good to get outside, get a change of scenery and basically redirect my thinking. Thanks again everybody, BeefNoJerky

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear tonight. Thanks, @TitanSS

Day 7 of the NC Challenge, Day 9 since our last contact..... AND SHE JUST CONTACTED ME. I got a message from her, like, 2 minutes ago via Facebook and I archived it without even looking at it! My heart is racing. My pupils are dilated and I'm slightly shaky. But, I DID IT. Thanks for...

Day 7 NC Challenge, Day #7 Though we haven't had any contact in 9 days, I'm on my 7th day of having accepted this challenge. I was SO CLOSE to looking her up on Facebook just about an hour ago. If it weren't for this forum there's be NO WAY I wouldn't have. Thanks guys. I just want...

NC Challenge, Day #5 Though we haven't had any contact in 7 days, I'm on my 5th day of having accepted this challenge. The last few hours have been the hardest. I don't want to contact her, but I do find myself wanting to go checking up on her on Facebook. It's crazy. I know that the...

NC Challenge, Day #3 Though we haven't had any contact in 5 days, I'm on my 3rd day of having accepted this challenge. Though I have moments of thinking about her and, to be honest, longing for her, this NC Challenge has been a big help. Knowing that I *can't* contact her gives me a moment to...

60-Day NC Challenge, Accepted. Day #1 Today I'm in slightly a unique situation. I basically have a ridiculously bad case of one-itis. She and I have been in near-miss situations for 5+ years. Yeah, five... years... We've both been unavailable for long periods of time, but there has...