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You're right. I figured flirting and messing around with women would lead somewhere naturally, but I haven't been ballsy enough to make a move because I'm second-guessing myself. From now on I'll make a move when they look in to it and not care about failing. I've been keeping what you said...

I don't care about whether I get this girl or not, but I see where you're coming from about not reading too much in to women. I've done that before and I realize there's never really an answer. I'm just trying to see if my experiences are bad luck or something wrong in my approach/mindset...

What do you think makes you come off as effeminate? Voice? Personality? Looks? Working out, playing sports, or taking leadership roles is a good start.

I was thinking the same thing, especially the latter portion. Lesson learned. Next time I hit it off with someone I'll be more direct at the beginning and see where it goes. True, most cute women I've met have at least one guy orbiting her. I'm really glad you posted and brought this up...

It's cool. My kino could be better, but I know I'm a lot more comfortable with touching women than most men. I don't feel like I dress badly, but sometimes it can be bland. Other than kino and body language, what else is there to physical attraction? I'll try reading some material in case I...

It depends on what you're comparing yourself on. There's no point in comparing yourself based on wealth or genes because its not something you can change easily and in the short-term. You just have to acknowledge that some people will value these more than others. Personally I always compare...

Hey everyone, I'm new to the forums and looking forward to being more involved because I love this forum's emphasis on inner game and self-improvement. Quick background: I broke up with my ex of three years around a year ago and found myself in a position where I had lost contact with my...