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Well done D1ZL4, good post. I kinda had the same situation as you once and burned my ex's clothes. When she came by to collect it, I gave her a little bag with the ashes in it. Her look was priceless :eek:

Pfff it seems so much harder now doing my second attempt of NC. A few hours ago I overheard her saying to all her friends how much she actually loves me and when I found out she lied to me yet again, she was pretty much begging me to stay with her. I had to physically throw her out of my...

I screwed up. I broke NC a while back because I met her while going out and we ended hooking up and kept contact after that. I just found out however, that since I initiated NC (2 weeks ago), she already slept with 2 guys. Ofcourse she has all the right to, but it really shows me that I don't...

Broke NC; met her by accident while going out with a female friend for a drink. I wanted to be quick about it but unfortunately stayed talking to her for too long and let her try to explain stuff to me. Since then, she's been sort of begging me to take her back and telling me it's unfair and...

Thanks Mauser96, for pointing out the obvious. It's good to reread old posts sometimes.

day 11 So I just received the following text from her: I wish she could just respect NC and not send me this bullsh!t. I'm sure she regrets what she's done, and she still cares about me. But there is no way I can take her back into my life. Should I just ignore it, or tell her once more...

Thanks fuko2007. I'm starting to feel more and more relieved about this whole breakup. For a long time I already felt like it wasn't going anywhere but I was too afraid to end it. Now that I have, I still have my down moments, but knowing that I have my freedom again and that I don't have to...

It's up to you to decide, but this is a NC challenge and you didn't block her for no reason! Think about it for a day, don't do anything impulsive. You're probably still trying to get over her.

We're both 27. She works as a barmaid, is always broke and parties all the time nowadays and I doubt that's going to change soon. She's a very attractive girl and gets a lot of attention from guys. I wish I could just use her for sex like this guy and don't have any feelings for her :( She...

day 8 Ok guys, I'm on day 8 and I'm doing alright. I have my moments where I feel like bashing my head through a wall but those moments don't last very long fortunately. I noticed that the thing that really bothers me though is that it took me quite some time to get this girl into bed in the...

Thanks ludis, I know deep down this is the best thing to do. Just have to remind myself all the time that it's really over and this girl is no good for me :trouble: The worst thing is that we agreed on having an open relationship the last two months, and now she's having a fvckbuddy to have some...

Hi guys, I just found this thread yesterday and started NC a few days ago after breaking up a very complicated relationship with this girl. It's good to find some people in the same fvcked up situation struggling with the same pain and reading about the successes people have after a while. We...