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Thanks guys I needed that. Lately I've spent more time worrying about the possibility of being cheated on more than doing my own thing. No use worrying about something completely out of my control. Time to get back to enjoying life.

So to put it simply how do you keep confidence in your relationship? Like I trust my gf but I've seen so many horror stories of guys getting completely blind sided by their gfs cheating. I'd be lying if I said it wasn't something that didn't cross my mind when she's not around. **** like...

I know I was lol. Not much I can do about it now. Idk the best course of action I'll probably just ignore her until she breaks it. We have class together so she'll break down pretty quick. Last week it was twice she said she'd be coming to see me. One time she texted that she was super sick...

Well it happened two other times the same week. Once she was sick and the other time just fell asleep which neither time did I get mad. She did surprise me with a card she made and we ate lunch together for my birthday. It was more the "I'm helping my roommate with homework the entire night...

Thanks! That sounds like great advise to me. I'll have to start doing that

In hindsight you have an excellent point. But there's nothing I can do about that now. Given the text she sent she probably wasn't going to acknowledge she was in the wrong whatsoever. She even had one of those "Nothing I do is good enough for you" parts. I'm getting better at not showing when...

Eh as far as low interest she's the one that wanted us to be "together" I was fine doing my own thing. The whole fb thing is all her. But either way not texting or contacting I know how she is. She wouldn't reply and be like "I'm in control now" Oh well have another chick coming down next...

Hey all, I kinda took a break from this forum to get my chit together the last few months (and I have!) But Im super curious as to your opinion on this So this last week was not only valentines day (who cares) and my birthday. Anyways the girl I've been seeing said she was going to spend...

Going NC once again and plan on finishing it this time. Hoping to improve myself every day as I go. So here we are day 1

The only reply I got was "I'm fine" like 12 hours later after a novel the night before about how she didn't want to live anymore.er I'm done trying to help her/ be there for her. Would I fck her? Yea probably lol, but I don't want her in my life. She has WAY to many problems and its not my...

Thanks guys. I just needed to vent because it's infuriating. I would just let her have it because she deserves it. But I'm not going to be the one who pushes her over the edge. I was just trying to be nice but she's not my problem I've got my own life to worry about. I'm not giving her a reply...

To start this off this isn't a "I miss my ex and I want to be with her" thread. We broke up 2 months ago and I am completely happy with my life. Her on the other hand is either bipolar or extremely depressed we talk from time to time. She texts me the day before thanksgiving that she feels...

My friend coming from a small town I can relate. But there's always something to do if you look for it hit up a gym take up some outdoor activities really anything that gets you out and doing something and not leave you to your thoughts. I know from experience the first few days are the...

Yessir. In my case my ex is the one that broke NC. But lets be real here, there is a reason you are not with your ex anymore. It didn't just magically happen. You have to accept that there are better option out there for you. It's up to you to find them

Guys just wanted to say Im going NC once again. I broke NC thinking there was a possibility of getting back with my ex. Let me just reiterate what has already been said here a thousand times. It will not work! My ex and I talked even though the talk almost didn't happen. She turned into a...

So a little update I'm pretty sure even though she said she wasn't mad about the texts I sent friday, they were pretty damn harsh and I'm pretty sure she went ahead and read them eventhough after she called me she said she'd just delete them. So here we are I'm pretty sure she's mad at me...

That my friend is what we will talk about next week I suppose. Jariel you are right on the money seriously. One side of me wants to trust her until she gives me a reason not to. But just being on here in general I've seen so many "Got played by this girl" threads that the other side of me is...

I agree you all are right. I accepted everything and was happy after going NC. Was even fine with her txting me after a month of NC. I suppose the glimmer of fixin things made me react that way. Because no one wants to be played for a fool. I don't think it's that I'm scared of losing her...

It's not the fact that she was with someone else that pissed me off. It was the the fact that the night before she was busy texting me how much she missed me and that she still loved me then seeing that. Although it appears she's not with someone else. It's not that I can't move on it was more...

So I'll try and make this quick Basically broke up with my ex because we were both going to be moving away at the end of the year. I go NC and a month in she breaks it. Lastnight she txts me about how much she misses me and that she still loves me. I suggest we talk in person. The next day my...