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I've been in sort of a daze the last couple of days as well, definitely hurting my studies. Right now however, I am actually focusing and getting some work done. Small step but much much better than just sitting there thinking about her like I did the last couple day

All great advice guys, really appreciate it. I'm currently focusing on the mental aspect of the break up: accepting it's over, controlling my thoughts to something more productive etc. I won't lie, during the relationship I did look at other girls and let my imagination wonder. Guess it's my...

Day 3 Still feel terrible, got blindsided by this break up. Thinking back, I realize there were warning signs the last two months but I talked with her about it and rationalized it off. I asked myself this morning if I'd really want to be with her again. Gut move is yes, obviously, but I also...

That is what I'm afraid of. I think it'll be awhile before I can fully squash that hope. Logically, it all makes sense how final the break up was but fully accepting that is going to take me some time

Hey guys thanks for all the great advice. It's been a tough couple of days. Guess for some more information, we had been together for several years and she blindsided me with the break up. I immediately deleted her number blocked her on FB and deleted her pictures off my phone. I think no...

Been awhile since I've been here. Long time Girlfriend broke up with me this week. Any advice? What do you usually do to get back on your feet? Thanks guys

I like that perspective of keeping life simple. Its a sound suggestion, just hard to actually practice sometimes. I'll try to keep that in mind bro. Thanks for all of the advice. Admittedly, this is a pretty melodramatic problem compared to other issues people might have, but even so...

I appreciate your advice. And yes I agree, I still have a ways to go in maturity. I think you misunderstood however. I'm not asking to get her back. The thing that honestly bothers me the most is how I treated her. I was vague in my post but her sudden coldness is entirely my fault. I'm...

Hey guys, long time lurker but only recently have I found a reason to post. I'm a young guy, almost in my third year of college. From high school to about last October, I was dating this one girl. About two years. This girl had flaws but was very sweet. She did her best for us. Honestly I was...