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Guys, Looking for some advice on how to proceed. I’ve been on three dates with a girl. No kissing or sexual intimacy in that time. On date 3 I asked her if she was interested in a relationship, as that’s my intention. She states she has just come out of an on-off long term relationship of 10...

Create a weekly budget and track every expenditure.

I think you're being naive, women in their 35s are still sleeping around, despite the illusion. They are just more experienced at hiding it, especially in workplaces.

Spending very little could still be a waste. Always aim to have fun and do things that you enjoy, when you do not know your date well. In winter I would do indoor dates such as - Squash, bowling, pool, rock climbing etc Squash has yielded the highest success rate.

Nice, technology is making it harder and harder for girls to pretend they aren't 'Horney'. Could not be further from the truth.

You've got the right intention. FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real,and is what prevents us from living and enjoying life. The key is identifying what your fears are and understanding how false they are.

I think your honest answer may be the best answer. Tell her you're a virgin, she probably won't believe you anyway. You will also have an excuse if you end up getting lucky and disappoint.

The divorce rate in the western world is a good indication that you cannot bind a women even by kids, education, money or family. The issue is of abundance, there are simply greater options for females than males. With this current over abundance it would be foolish to invest anything...

I actually go out of my way to ensure I do not use it. Using social media to pick up women is like playing your opponent on their home turf. I take them out of their comfort zone and into reality, which after all is becoming quite scarce.

Time is merely an illusion for control, It has as much significance as you give it. Unfortunately too many people become dictated by time to the extent, they stop living in the present and are either living in their past memories or looking forward/dreading an event in the future. While their...

Or they have now realized what they have lost.

I believe this was part of a quote by Marilyn Monroe. She literally stated the red pill meaning in the first sentence - "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure"

Rate of births and marriages must be declining. Social conditioning at its finest.

'Shyness' is just a sweet guise for low confidence. A guy with high confidence will approach in both situations with little regard for the consequence.

What makes you assume you will live to this old age? What makes you assume you will wake up tomorrow after sleeping tonight? Live in the present, forget the future.

You're surprised the 'bad boy' implication was the most attractive?

It's far too easy to blame things outside of our control (i.e hormones) than the things within (i.e poor diet, lack of exercise) I would start with dieting and exercise before conducting hormonal tests. Your hormones can simply be imbalanced from the poor diet and lack of exercise. Get on a...

No it's a great way to meet other women, which would have likely yielded more success than cold approaching on the street. Don't pass an opportunity to infiltrate social networks.

Or you could display your photo in the app and engage those who are actually attracted to you.

You are over thinking. You do not need a cheesy line. Build some rapport and ask her out.