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Two pieces of advice from some stranger on the internet, in response to your brief story: 1. I personally don't see the benefit in disparaging her looks/teeth. Instead of: "an attractive girl doesn't want me," you've turned it into: "this ugly girl doesn't even want me." Insulting her might...

OP you're an idiot. I don't care if it gets me an infraction, it needs to be said.

Those are good jokes, but hardly advice. The way that I think of it... if you asked her that same question, how would she answer? That's a rhetorical question, by the way.

I have this exact issue. I'm a 9 in looks, but a 3 or 4 in self-esteem, and it just makes a mess in the dating scene. I can't go for 3s or 4s because they think something is wrong, like I'm making fun of them or I'm super desperate, and I can't get the 8s or 9s because my confidence is off...

No matter what your SMV is though, it's capped by your self-esteem. So if your SMV is otherwise a 9, but your self-esteem is a 4, your SMV is effectively a 4. That's obviously oversimplified, but it's a good rule of thumb. If we want to be more accurate with this, I found a reasonable test...

1. I'd give myself a 1.2, maybe 1.25 2. I'm doing the shrink thing. Kinda works I suppose. Doing the pills, too. And the healthy diet and exercise. And the yoga. And the going out with friends all the time and talking to girls I think are cute. And going to night school and getting...

This whole pick up artist thing isn't entirely about seeing the GRIM REALITY of the world. It's about understanding it a bit better so you can have fun, rather than bang your head against a wall that you've erected for yourself. If you're not having fun with the dating game thing, try taking...

I was in speech and debate in highschool. I had pee-your-pants stage fright and I mumbled bad, so I was pretty awful and the coach knew I was dead weight, but I did it for two years. What helped me get over the fear of public speaking was singing at open mics with my guitar. Now I can talk to...

You're thinking that she is just barely interested in you, and that if you don't make the absolute perfect move at the absolute perfect time, she'll instantly shut you out of her life for good. I know, because I used to think that way. The immediate solution to this is to call her and ask...

So you're a young, skinny(ish) virgin who wants non-commital sex, and you can't find it? You are either trolling your ass off or you are leaving out some crucial aspect of this story. This is an anonymous forum, no one will judge you, so there's no reason to filter your story. But I have a...