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it like hearing my exact story again..sorry bud but since i've experienced it, i know how it feels..you are the kind of true carer, you don't expect anything and do good..just for the good, not expecting anything in return, but thats the thing, even i did't realise exactly what i was doing until...

i thought i'd update this thread, maybe it helps someone i did some introspection and understood that maybe i didn't go all out and there were certain instances where i thought my actions could've been misunderstood, so i took an off from work, and i spent the day with her, we had a good time...

its all about give and take, and how well suited a person is to a job...if a woman has her mind pre-made up about how a thing should function, she's obviously has some naive idea in her head about what a relationship is supposed to be like, and that always a bad thing, pre concieved notions have...

some of it makes sense, and some of it doesn't, of course you have to understand for two people to get on relatively well, they need to understand each other pretty well, i understand the part about insecurity, but i personally feel there is a tipping scale, women want men to care...but not too...

its good that you realised that you made a mistake, sometimes that's the hardest part, you're self aware, thats a good thing its always hard knowing that you've been responsible for ruining something good, but as the others have mentioned, what you need to concentrate is on getting yourself and...

sure, i totally get where you're coming from i guess i have myself to blame for the weak image i painted of myself, i gave in easily when i was confronted, and was always afraid of hurting her, so i used to give a lot of thought before saying anything to her, which is not a good thing, i was...

^i think its 'her' breath thats the problem...not his

LOL, well yes india is conservative but not all of it :), meeting her will involve alcohol and dinner, thanks for your prompt advice its amazing how when you put your stuff down in writing, it makes you realise how big a wiener you've been, i just read my 1st post and i see all my mistakes...

Hi guys, this is my first post on the forum so a big hello to all of you, I like most people think of myself as being a strong individual but then life throws a curve ball at you, and you end up complicating relatively simple matters, anyways so here goes the narration of my problem i live in...