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    Asking them out for coffee vs drinks: higher success rate with coffee?

    I started doing coffee too...was getting too expensive to go for drinks all the time and also the chance of banging the first date was low in my case anyway. There were times though that the girl refused coffee and wanted to go out for drinks instead.
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    Will dating always be a numbers game or can one have so much skill that they can have ANY woman?

    There is not a single man on the planet that could get any woman. I've also seen a lot of high status tall good looking rich and ripped guys get rejected. Don't forget the more you have going for you and the more success with women you get the more ****y you get and that turns off some women.
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    online dating/tinder/bumble/etc...

    Dave Chappelle said it best. S*ck his d*ck Play with his balls Make him a sandwich Don't talk so much
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    Tourists at bars/clubs

    I live in a big city so there are a lot of tourists that visit, especially tourists that do road trips for the weekend. I've noticed the vast majority leave on Sunday afternoon to head back home. I feel it's a double edged sword approaching or maintaining convos with tourists at clubs/bars...
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    Thinking about my lifetime of extreme underachieving with women

    I also feel like the biggest underachiever out there. I'm in the top 10% in most areas; I'm tall, good looking, financially secure, sociable and a good conversationalist. Shyness was my main weakness for a long time and I always told myself once I solve that issue I would bang every model out...
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    ^ Thanks. Some good advice there. I won't initiate. I'll just take this experience as a learning lesson and the next time I get invited to a chick's place I will ravage her like a wild animal.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    Update: I texted her 8 days after the date. She took a day and a half to reply with "Oh I'm so rude...so sorry this week has been crazy so far, how was your weekend?" I felt to answer you weren't rude for waiting 36 hours to reply, you seem disinterested. Instead I said "My weekend was...
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    She initiated the 1st make out. She even put her leg on my leg while we were playing Mario kart. I initiated the 2nd make out.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    She also said she was on Tinder a few years ago and only met 1 guy that became her bf for 2 years (the aforementioned ex).
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    2 drinks and it was a Sunday night. She also mentioned to me I was her first Bumble date and that a guy on Bumble cancelled on her 3 days before we met.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    She was the one texting. I only politely responded with a few words. I initiated only once.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    I think I was caught off guard. After trying to bang for so long on a 1st date with various chicks and being accused of being too aggressive I changed my style and became more patient. I didn't expect to bang going in the date but when I look in hindsight all the signs were there that she...
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    She was working as a waitress in a busy bar when she was in college. She definitely seemed like she knew how to play the game.
  14. M

    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    So I shouldn't even reach out? I haven't yet since the date.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    She did mention she was living with her ex for 2 years but I don't remember when they broke up.
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    Ok, tell me where I f*cked up!

    Long story short. I match with a chick on Bumble. She asks for my number 3 messages in. She texts me right away. She initiates again the next morning. Initiates in the evening again asking how my day was. Initiates again next morning. I'm too busy so can't give her a date to meet yet. I...
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    I don't understand how are guys easily getting girls

    Most of my dates we are sitting across each other. What do you do to have such easy access for escalation?
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    I don't understand how are guys easily getting girls

    I have no problem getting dates on OLD. I can easily get 6-7 a week. Getting laid is harder. On which date do you get laid on average? 1st, 2nd, 3rd?
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    I don't understand how are guys easily getting girls

    Guys arent easily getting girls. Guys lie and exaggerate. Both genders lie. Guys overinflate their numbers and women underinflate them.
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    Tell me about tinder

    I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites. On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping...
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