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Oh yeah, not going to say anything negative nor entertain anything negative from her side. There are many, many, uncountable unique good times and qualities shared, so she definitely has a lot more to come back for than to leave from. Definitely will update. Thanks.

Oh yes, "I know she's ****ed half the men on the planet, let me just keep doing it with her. Screw morals, standards or the chances of disease lol". You're a smart one.

So I'm gonna call her and start off like this: (feel free to amend/add/advise) "Hey -----, it's been a while since I heard from you, thought I'd check in. How are you?" (*responsds. I'm sure I'm gonna be asked why I'm calling /and/or the past will be brought up) Me: "Listen, I know. I thought...

She definitely is different from most modern women. Especially in the sense that she literally had/has no non-family male numbers or contact (aside from that flirt thing, which she deleted within the 2weeks). She literally wiped her phone of all contacts, including females, and started afresh...

Unless I'm looking too deep into it, she still comes on whatsapp for me (i.e. it shows when was someone last online etc), because throughout the years, I'm the only person she used whatsapp with, aside from her sister in law. So it's possible she may in fact be waiting for a message/call, not...

Yeah, I am appreciating all the responses, very insightful, understanding and helpful. I was afraid they were gonna be like the ones usually thrown around, "leave her, many other fish, etc".

You've pretty much hit it all head on. Looking back I do feel bad for the unfair I have done. Granted I didn't only mistreat her, because I have loved and made her love being with me a lot too, but for the bad I did do she didn't deserve. It should not been a problem if she didn't want to tell...

@BetterCallSaul It's not really talking about control, I was just putting her in the good image and light she deserves. That she is a good woman who does what I mentioned above etc. I don't try to control her, as far as I know, since she does whatever I say anyways. I haven't apologized...

Remember, I've also treated her very good. There's a reason she's done all that and would do more for me

No, you're totally right. This woman will give me her every penny if I ask, no questions asked. She will leave her family and friends for me if I ask. When we went out, it was always about me. She would never say what she wants to eat or where she wants to go, because she always made it about...

That's not what I meant. Of course you guys can be harsh and truthful. I meant comments like "oh man up, go workout, don't be a baby, etc"

Just a disclaimer: I have a steady career, make a 6 figure salary, family, amazing friends and a very good social life. Just that when I come home and sit alone, I start thinking of her and thats when this side of me kicks in, start getting emotional. I'm in great shape, and workout 6 days a...

Quick background: started dating 2011. Im her first. In terms of EVERYTHING relationship and sex-wise. She's 4 years younger than me. Over the course of the relationship, she has bought me countless gifts, presents, bday cards etc, and has spent roughly around $6,000 additional in hard cash on...

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Thats true. But when something becomes toxic, even if its loved, you know its time to fix things for the sake of our own health.

OP and me are the same. This is my main account I couldnt login, and 5 attempts got my logged out. Recovered on my mobile, thats where I am writing from now. im not a troll. And I have it half figured, meaning to back off. I just wanted some advicr from moe people for a better insight.

Im the same guy, yes. Piers is my older account, 5 wrong passwords couldnt login. Its recovered though. Sorry for the confusion.

Sorry, couldn't understand the 2nd half of your msg, rephrase please?

Thata why I am going ghost/busy/nc, to pull the bending frame back to my doorway. Like I said, nc is cake for me. And if that doesnt fix ****, then fk it. At least I know I tried.

Oh yes, 16 msgs to my GIRLFRIEND of three years plan to marry, totally makes me a creep. Esp when half of those messages were me thinking she was asleep so I tried to wake her up to avoid "oversleep fatigue". but ok whatever you say. I came here for advice not to be called labels.