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She has already asked for me to take a DNA test. She wants to do it tomorrow. She doesn't want a relationship which is cool. I just didn't want a kid this way. I've wanted to have one for a while though, but not from just some random girl.

This is 'not' the ex-girlfriend saying I might be the father. This is a one night stand I had last summer with another girl before I met the recent ex-girlfriend.

Unfortunately it is all too real, haha.

Yes, she admitted she slept with another guy the same week as we did(last summer) and he has been the father. Now, she says she thinks it looks like me. I bought an Identigene yesterday and I'm going to her place tomorrow to take the swabs. This is not the girl who dumped me BTW.

You get a curve ball and strike out, even though you were sure you got solid contact. (Ex who dumped you) You deal with it. Then you are told about a change up you apparently missed and you are blind sided.(girl from last year) All this while you are trying so hard to advance your life. How do...

Ok, so I just recently(12 days ago) got dumped by what I originally thought was a real love. Now less than a week later, I have been informed I may be a babies daddy. I am beyond lost.

Feel like an a** but at least I now know. I was out all night with friends having some fun so I'm not in my right frame of mind and should have done a second search/look tomorrow night sober.

Each time I search for the "DJ Bible", which I have yet to read and just learned of, I find a no longer exists message. Can anyone help a neophite out?

A man is someone with character. A "tough guy" or violent lunatic who likes to kill innocent animals and fight is a little boy.....with serious issues. Life is f'n tough OP. My favorite line is "Life sucks and they throw dirt in your face" I don't know how old you are, but I can bet that if you...

I think thisis spot on for my situation. She even said that me making my feelings known twice made her reall examine things. We were compatible, but I believe she found a reason or reasons to just not go there yet. So avoid getting drunk in the beginning stage or just avoid alcohol in the...

Since I have already essentially resigned to moving on, and most definitely decided to never initiate contact....would there be any joy in calling her on her B.S.? As in send a text saying "I know you left for another guy and were too cowardess to tell me the truth", or "good luck with the new guy"?

She did delete her profile on Match after our second date, I only know this because she asked me if I had deleted mine ater about 6 weeks. I didn't know they rolled over billing, but before I deleted my profile I checked to see if hers was no longer there. The last part about moving on I agree...

Good advice, thanks.

So you were somewhat like me in the past? Don't you ever miss the feeling of being loved and loving back?

I suspect you are correct that I turned her off at some point. I am actually at about 9%. I did make her "shake" the last time we were intimate and she expressed all day how amazing that was, which was obviously a huge ego boost to me. This one is going to be hard to just forget about, can I...

You may be/probably are absloutely correct. It just seemed like she was so completely into me with her actions more than her words before the last week. She always grabbed my hand and put her arm around me and often initiated the sex. We had many similar interests and got along fantastically...

I was single for a long time. There were women I went on multiple dates with over the years, but no real relationships. Many FWB's though. I decided that I wanted to try to meet someone interested in a real relationship, so I joined Match and after a couple poor matches this women contacted me...