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....not sure to begin really, so I guess I'll start from the beginning. My first love was a Swedish girl I met just after high school. Everything was great until I ****ed it all up on a head full of drugs. Never forgave myself for that (still ****s w/ me to this day 16 years later). Anyway...

Thanks gentlemen! Your perspectives mean a lot to me. Frankly, I have no reason to have any problems when it comes to women. I'm handsome and successful and out going (no bragging; it's the truth). Truth is, this past relationship REALLY ****ED ME UP. I'm just petrified that I'll fall into...

So...it's been about a year since my last and quite hectic relationship ended. I've finally picked myself up and got back out there. I've conquered that piece, the approaching girls piece and getting the number piece. It's the follow up though that I'm having the most trouble with. I don't...

Talked about it a little with a friend and it was body language. I've been working on smiling as opposed to frowning, hence the reaction I was getting from girls.

Often I go out alone. My friends are all professionals and aren't always available. Jeff for example's a lawyer who bills roughly 80 hours a week and Josh is usually snatched up by his girlfriend when not at work. Conversations have been going well but I keep getting this "where are your...

Dude, honestly I wish I could be more specific. I don't ask questions like that. They bore the hell out of me. I can only imagine what girls feel like when they hear them. Frankly, I'm convinced that it's something in my body language. Just not exactly sure what it is. I go in...

Hey all! This subject may have been discussed elsewhere so I do apologize. However, my question is this: what in the world am I doing wrong? More specifically, why is it that women seem to shut down around me? I'm having difficulty carrying on a normal conversation, let alone hitting on a...

Dude, first loves are the hardest to get by. Not that it's ever easy thereafter, but it does get easier. It will take time, however. Just focus on you like you did before when you dropped all that weight. Above all, remember this: there will always be another one. A better one even! So...