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Let me ask this: If my last text to her was: "I only have the best intentions for you and our boys. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over" AND AN HOUR LATER, SHE TEXTED ME: "No worries..i was just trying to help u..and the picture on the resume could...

So I never wrote her back. NOW....since she works for the headhunter that got me my job which is now ending, the recruiter there told me to update my resume. I did and attached a photo to it. So, I guess the recruiter (her coworker) showed her, and she just texted me: "FYI i know u don't...

Thanks!! By not replying, though, isn't that like agreeing that I cannot promise her stability? I was thinking of sending ONE (1) of these: 1. If you truly feel that you cannot accept me as I accept you, we need this break. I really believe it is the best thing for both of us right now. I have...

WELL...QUICKER THAN EXPECTED: A few hours after blocking her on FB, she texted me: "I see you blocked me off Facebook today..." I gave it a few minutes and used the reply put together earlier just in case she did, and I then replied: "Since you're doubting a future with me, I felt it's...

Help !!! HELP !!! Now I'm bummed AND confused. My current contract job I got through my girl's headhunter company she works for. We've been NC since last Sunday night, aside from a mail she sent to me Monday which I ignored. I know my contract is ending, but out of the blue I JUST got...

NaI & Stig... Both say NO to deactivate But Stig says defriend is OK? Do they get notified?

What are your thoughts? Note that I use FB to update family and friends about my son with pics etc..... BUT... I do not want to see what or who she is doing !!!!

All honesty: I'm bummed. It's Saturday and it was supposed to be our first time together without the kids in weeks. I'd be untruthful to myself if I didn't face up to the fact that I am bummed over it.

Owning up and ready for my ***** slap... Day 5 of NC, but I still didn't remove her from FB... 2x during the week, she "Liked" a post on FB I put up, rang me via 2-way pager (w/o voice....it was like a poke to me). However, I know that seeing her Check in places this weekend on FB would suck, so...

Well taken.... Appreciate the UK-to-NYC translation - lol Removing her from FB today

"If this makes her come back begging, saying she wants you back "a proper" then great," A Proper?

SS - thanks. That was a great reply. And that is what I shall do (NO letter...NOTHING)... However, I'm NOT ashamed to admit that I am having a very hard time Unfriending her from Facebook....it's REALLY hard PLUS,3 of my family members are STILL FB friends of hers.....UGGGGH

I'm just trying to clarify differing advice OF members of THIS THREAD ALSO - this is unique as she didn't break up with me: We had a 2-hour call Sunday night, and I FELT she was confused and not working with both feet in things. I know she wanted space because of her actions, not her words. Was...

Drellum & BigN - You guys are saying two different things?

"Tell her that you love her if you like, but you intend to move on with your life - with her or without her. Tell her that you hope that she will have a change of heart regarding your relationship and that you will leave the door open for a while.".....but doesn't the letter, albeit canned and...

Interesting angle. We had a 2-hour call Sunday night, and I FELT she was confused and not working with both feet in things. I know she wanted space because of her actions, not her words. Was "the talk" about needing space/etc from her imminent? Yes...although she denied she needed space, etc. I...

Thanks B.....from the kicklovesa%%.com website, he mentions the Making Up book you mentioned, but he said to use the NC letter I pasted above vs. the one in the book (he said the one in the book doesn't work)...what are your thoughts on the letter above?

Cool link D, thanks. Interesting.... Thanks. What really is a downer is that this coming Saturday night was the first night we were going to have alone in a long time. And now with no contact, I feel she will book other plans. I will do the same...but I know my first choice is. So are you...

Guys & Girls, Not sure if you have also seen the How to get your ex back fast (com) site, but they gave a format for an NC letter, which basically says to agree with the break up (or the "limbo" you are in), say you have big decisions to make and you need time to think them over and you would...

Well said all. @bigneil - that is clever (I'm not being sarcastic)