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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yeah....I didn't think of it as a violation since there was no direct contact..... but that makes sense. Thanks. It looked like a shout out for me....that's all....and I was not going to take the bait
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Update: So I still get status updates from her on Facebook. She usually only Likes pages and shares images, but she posted today "Not having a very good morning..UGH" Actual posts are so out of character for her, but knowing her for such a long time, it's a cry for attention from me like her her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Skalioppe - Props to you on your Day 40 account. It was riveting, as it gives a glimpse at what lies ahead, what to expect to feel, and to realize it's normal and what to do to circumvent. BTW..."Are you sure we can't be friends"....was she rubbing salt on a wound? UGGGHHH
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks all......and I just got this from her just now: "FYI.. I did what u asked me to do and took your family off my time line..(hopefully I did it right) U need to make them stop thinking im a run around.. they know from what u tell them and that’s not fair.."
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Been a short while since my update. I have heard promising words from her, but when she gets downtime, she has been meeting the girls, but is inviting me to meet them. However, we both agree we need time to sit and talk alone. So, we had to settle for the phone (better than Text!!), and we...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    As I am smiling from her dropping by to talk to me, kiss me, hug me, and she had this look on her face where she kept looking at my lips and deep in my eyes and kept touching me, hugging me, etc... Very nice......Very
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    No...let me clarify... she said if "you're not doing anything"....meaning "ME"
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    FYI.....she just called me.... but to talk to me about her IPOD (I'm a tech guy).... NOT the call I was hoping for from her ! (Uggh...I've been losing my composure...!!) We discussed the fact that we each have our kids this weekend, and the fact that next weekend we don't. She said "I might...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you all..... NOW it seems like the right time for NC.... I just didn't see it before, albeit points well taken. But now, yes.....ESPECIALLY after saying, "Reach out and touch me when you're ready"..... For me to write again would be BAD....VERY Bad..... What if she calls me or texts me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Please see below (start from the bottom up).....this NOW seems like NO CONTACT time, am I right?: From: Me To: Her Subject: Re: RE: RE: Hey.... Sent: Tue, Jul 3, 2012 2:31:25 PM A/C is a good thing. Reach out and touch me when you're ready From: Her To: Me Subject: RE: RE: Hey...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks...OK, so as for today, should I leave it be (even though I would love to hear her voice) and just try tomorrow, you think? (I want to do this all correctly, and you know how it is, sometimes an external and unbiased and non-cloudy opinion goes a LONG way. I don't mean to sound like a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks Mauser. I am, however, a bit disappointed, as we spoke yesterday and when I brought up us meeting and said, "would you?", and she said, "Why wouldn't I?" I had asked her about Monday night (tonight) and said Tues impossible. She asked why, if I had plans Tuesday night and I said no, car...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I reforwarded one of her texts from yesterday where she said she loved me, and asked if she just sent it or it got delayed...lol She wrote back within 5 minutes and said she meant every word she said and wished I was there with her.....so I broke NC in a tricky way, but no harm was done to me...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    FYI...this is what she wrote me on the 28th... "I love you from the time I met u and still till this day.. let's get one thing straight ..I'm not seeing anyone. Nor do I want to seeanyone else babe.. iwant to try us again.. we have a lot to talk about.."
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Dont know...I just dont know if I can trust her now....this is the first time I saw this with a guy doing this in a year, and it started when i moved. I wondered why she wasnt replying to my posts all of a sudden......its the same reason she isnt responding to his......probably so we all don't...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    OK....so even though you say I was controlling and incorrect...I now have to stay NO contact...? If I told her that her no meant no for me, and she contacts me and we meet......doesn't it look like I'm budging on my words?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Fresh Wound here....Self-Inflicted? Hi Gents, Glad to have found this place... Dating my girlfriend for 1yr 4 months. Both 40 yrs old. She has two young boys and I have one. Her past showed cheating by her ex husband (the boys' dad), which left her with trust issues and not wanting to...
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    The Ultimate Break-up Guide...

    Glad to be here.... Hi Gents, Glad to have found this place... Dating my girlfriend for 1yr 4 months. Both 40 yrs old. She has two young boys and I have one. Her past showed cheating by her ex husband (the boys' dad), which left her with trust issues and not wanting to be or feel...
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