Well I appreciate the advice from the people who seem to have half a brain on here and can muster up some sort of intelligent response.
Some of you seem like you spend way too much time on these forums that I question how much you really get out. Go ahead and attack me as you may, I'm done...
"you're a moron for stopping it. she thinks you dont like her if you dont have sex with her. simple as that"
If this is true then why does she continue to fool around with me knowing I don't want it to lead to sex. We pretty much did everything but sex, I mean full on mine against hers...
The girl is not using me....she's even told her parents how perfect she thinks I am and all that...she just needs time.
But since everyone here seems to be in agreement about taking it to the next level (sex), next time I think I will let it go all the way.
She has told me and her friends that she wants to take things really slow with me since she just got out of a long relationship..and I figured she was just getting caught up in the moment and would regret it if we actually did have sex, so we did everything but sex instead and came pretty close...
From what I understand she does want a relationship but just not so soon after her previous one. We pretty much act as bf/gf...we hang out and go places and have fun and hold hands and kiss and all that stuff, but we are not bf/gf...this is why I am so confused. She dumped her ex (fiance) b/c...
I am hesistant to post my situation on here because I would rather blame myself if I screwed up than regret taking someone elses advice and screwing it up...but I am completely lost here....
I met this girl through my best friends wife, we all went bowling together and me and her flirted...
Thanks for the tips guys...this is what I was thinking too, basically ask her if shes doing anything exciting over the weekend where I can then lead into asking her to go to dinner/bowling/wherever?
Any suggestions on where to take her in a situation like this?
Alright guys, I am a 26 year old design engineer and the secretary at my work has been sending mixed signals.
When she was first hired here she would never talk to me or greet me in the mornings but then things took a complete U-turn. After I opened up to her a little she goes out of her way...
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