The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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  1. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Just thought I'd update you all to let you know that this situation has now passed - I stayed NC and everything has faded away. This has been a huge learning curve for me. The intoxication of being seen as a Superman was ridiculous. There's no doubt that when a girl presents herself to you as...
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    Urgent BPD ex advice

    If anyone wants a boost, or just a cathartic song, to not feel like they're alone in their breakup from a destructive relationship, this is about the best you'll find. This band are the biggest thing in England right now, and for good reason. If you like this, check out their debut album: Sigh...
  3. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Kind and wise words from you both - thank you.
  4. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Will do, 5. And I agree, Deuce - although the letter felt good to write, it would do no good to send. The thing I'm struggling with most here is the affect this has had on me - I feel dazed, empty and my nerves are shot to hell. I'm drinking like a sailor too (never the answer). Thing is...
  5. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Thank you, 411. And you're right about the self-esteem thing - I feel like I've been emotionally raped. What a fool I've been. But also, what a lesson I've learned.
  6. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    You're made of sterner stuff than me, BB. I can't begin to play that game with her - it'd kill me in the process. I just want her gone so I can lick my wounds for a few weeks and come back fighting again. You're right about the letter, though - it's motivated purely by passion, and will never...
  7. M

    Women Choose

    100% agree. The more unavailable you appear, the more attractive you become. Be it emotionally, socially, in terms of your relationships status, your clothes, your looks, your attitude - everything. If you seem unobtainable, people want you. No matter where you come at it from.
  8. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Just had further contact - voicemail (in tears): "Mister Tyzer, please call me back. I know I must be the last person you want to talk to but you have to understand that it's my problems and I know this and I say and do things I don't mean but I just really, really need to talk to you now...
  9. M

    Urgent BPD ex advice

    That's good advice, and advice I will take. All I'll add is that, apart from anything else, my letter will only serve to highlight how far she got under my skin and how much I want her to suffer for it. Which, whatever way you look at it, is unhealthy, AFC and (most horribly of all) exactly...
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    Urgent BPD ex advice

    Hello fellas I came across this fantastic site, like many others before me, in researching the effects of being in a relationship with a borderline. Mine was only for about 6 months, off and on, but still, the effect has been significant, and come as quite a shock. Since finally breaking...
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