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Restarting After 3 weeks, and a lot of healing, I restarted NC. She came over to pack her stuff, and I thought I could be there. I didn't even have a plan, really - I was just going to be there. At first it wasn't bad, but then it started hurting, bad. And now ended up running away. She's...

I replied to a logistical e-mail of hers with something "try-hard". Then, couldn't help myself checking her facebook and seeing what she's up to. Back to square one. It doesn't feel good... sigh.

Day 6. Learning to laugh at myself and the situation. Life isn't that serious, even though sometimes we make it so. At the end of the day, nobody is dead, nobody is physically maimed, yes I lost a pretty girl who was great, yes I've got a lot of work to do to get back to where I was, but I'm...

Day 4, morning. Yesterday I had dinner with a cute girl from work. She has a serious boyfriend, but I liked her as a person. To be honest, she reminded me of the ex - both very good communicators, kind, tall and skinny, from the same town and with similar values. Had a nice two hour dinner...

we were living together, she moved out but hasn't found a permanent spot yet. logistical stuff. but point taken, i guess today i'm back to square one. there will probably be a little more contact when she actually needs to get her stuff, but i will keep it quick and impersonal.

Thanks for saying that Big Keep. I think I want to date to get over my oneitis. This one was really a keeper, and I messed it up. I think I was trying to show myself that she's not one of a kind, there are tons out there like her. And actually, even though I was kind of sad on the way home...

After a date Just had a date with a friend of a friend. On paper she should be perfect for me - career oriented, similar background, definitely smart, definitely loyal. But all I could think about was the ex. The ex was an amazingly good communicator - she is just an awesome conversationalist...

Hi all, I am starting this challenge today. She was the love of my life, but I took her for granted and also neglected myself (e.g. my own happiness and wellbeing) as I started a new business, and she ended up losing feelings for me. She broke up with me about a month ago. Instead of being...